... . . . . People keep saying, “His past doesn’t excuse his actions.” Sure it doesn’t. But can you at least try to understand? Jaekyung grew up in hell. A drunk, violent father. A mother who left and never came back. He was less than ten years old, calling her, begging her to come home and promising he’d make money so she didn’t have to be scared anymore. And then he was left to survive in filth and hunger, bullied, alone. That kind of pain doesn’t vanish when you grow up. He doesn’t drink because he saw what drinking turned his father into. He hates when Dan drinks because it triggers something deep, ugly and and something he had no control over as a kid. You think he’s just controlling. But he’s traumatized. No one’s saying he’s perfect. He’s done wrong, absolutely. But Dan is an adult who can make choices. Jaekyung, back then, couldn’t even choose when to eat. We're not excusing anything. We're just seeing the full picture. If you can’t give him forgiveness, at least give him understanding
Kim Dan never had parents, only his grandma took care of him, he was bullied at school, the doctor he worked for tried to rape him and still he got fired from the job, he has issues with the loan sharks, he have shitty life and shitty childhood, but still he is not jerk like Jaekyung
Kim Dan never had parents, only his grandma took care of him, he was bullied at school, the doctor he worked for tried to rape him and still he got fired from the job, he has issues with the loan sharks, he hav... beel
No one’s denying that Dan had it rough. He absolutely did, and the fact that he stayed kind through it all says a lot about him. But trauma doesn’t affect everyone the same way. Dan had his grandma, someone who loved and protected him. That matters. Jaekyung had no one. Just abuse, neglect, and survival. He didn’t get to be soft. He had to fight for everything, and yeah, that shaped him into someone rough around the edges. It’s not about comparing pain or who had it worse. It’s about realizing that people cope differently. Dan shuts down. Jaekyung lashes out. Neither response is “better” or “worse.” They’re just different reactions to being hurt. Understanding that doesn’t excuse Jaekyung’s actions; but it explains why he is the way he is.
No one’s denying that Dan had it rough. He absolutely did, and the fact that he stayed kind through it all says a lot about him. But trauma doesn’t affect everyone the same way.Dan had his grandma, someone ... bloomingdale
i understand the kid version of Jaekyung, but not the adult one, he can go to visit therapist about it
Kim Dan never had parents, only his grandma took care of him, he was bullied at school, the doctor he worked for tried to rape him and still he got fired from the job, he has issues with the loan sharks, he hav... beel
Kim Dan is an angel. You should know by now that only an angel full of love and devotion can heal Jaekyung's scattered heart. That's the cliche we all know... never saw it happen in real life so don't go saving people's heart with your kindness lol.
Kim Dan is an angel. You should know by now that only an angel full of love and devotion can heal Jaekyung's scattered heart. That's the cliche we all know... never saw it happen in real life so don't go saving... mili
Only about 5 chapters left. Translation is really exhausting it burned me out. I have stopped for a while now. But I'll see if I can manage to finish those 5 chapters.
Only about 5 chapters left. Translation is really exhausting it burned me out.I have stopped for a while now. But I'll see if I can manage to finish those 5 chapters. bloomingdale
Hi sorry for messaging here but for 1 to 10 chapter 28, there seems to be some errors with the panel TT
Hi! The latest chapter is the one I uploaded and it was uploaded on the 17th on the official platform. No new chapter since then, maybe this coming Friday.
Hi!The latest chapter is the one I uploaded and it was uploaded on the 17th on the official platform.No new chapter since then, maybe this coming Friday. bloomingdale
kaoruuuuuu!!! i visit ur home profile and found ur question about this (eventho it was 2024) i want to recommend you one! its called 우기, its not translated yet but i hope u check itt! its one of my 2025 favsss!
kaoruuuuuu!!! i visit ur home profile and found ur question about this (eventho it was 2024) i want to recommend you one! its called 우기, its not translated yet but i hope u check itt! its one of my 2025 fav... senru
ohmygodd turnsout its daleee imsososooryyy i guess i was halfdead when i was comment that soembarassing….
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People keep saying, “His past doesn’t excuse his actions.” Sure it doesn’t. But can you at least try to understand?
Jaekyung grew up in hell. A drunk, violent father. A mother who left and never came back. He was less than ten years old, calling her, begging her to come home and promising he’d make money so she didn’t have to be scared anymore. And then he was left to survive in filth and hunger, bullied, alone.
That kind of pain doesn’t vanish when you grow up.
He doesn’t drink because he saw what drinking turned his father into. He hates when Dan drinks because it triggers something deep, ugly and and something he had no control over as a kid. You think he’s just controlling. But he’s traumatized.
No one’s saying he’s perfect. He’s done wrong, absolutely. But Dan is an adult who can make choices. Jaekyung, back then, couldn’t even choose when to eat.
We're not excusing anything. We're just seeing the full picture.
If you can’t give him forgiveness, at least give him understanding
Kim Dan never had parents, only his grandma took care of him, he was bullied at school, the doctor he worked for tried to rape him and still he got fired from the job, he has issues with the loan sharks, he have shitty life and shitty childhood, but still he is not jerk like Jaekyung
No one’s denying that Dan had it rough. He absolutely did, and the fact that he stayed kind through it all says a lot about him. But trauma doesn’t affect everyone the same way.
Dan had his grandma, someone who loved and protected him. That matters. Jaekyung had no one. Just abuse, neglect, and survival. He didn’t get to be soft. He had to fight for everything, and yeah, that shaped him into someone rough around the edges.
It’s not about comparing pain or who had it worse. It’s about realizing that people cope differently. Dan shuts down. Jaekyung lashes out. Neither response is “better” or “worse.” They’re just different reactions to being hurt.
Understanding that doesn’t excuse Jaekyung’s actions; but it explains why he is the way he is.
i understand the kid version of Jaekyung, but not the adult one, he can go to visit therapist about it
Kim Dan is an angel. You should know by now that only an angel full of love and devotion can heal Jaekyung's scattered heart. That's the cliche we all know... never saw it happen in real life so don't go saving people's heart with your kindness lol.
in real life only money heals, sadly
True, and whoever said money can't buy happiness clearly didn't know where to shop.
yeah *sighs*