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Are y'all really complaining that this abuse survivor traumatized queer boy makes bad decisions in his first relationship are y'all really calling him stupid for being a human person with emotions fr I think many of y'all have forgotten that homophobia ruins lives and have also subsequently forgotten that people have like flaws and stories require conflict if you wanted a simple fluff story with no conflict no motivations and character flaws more comolex than "says mean thing once" and no real plot beyond making you smile and feel good go read a one shot god forbid a traumatized person be traumatized in these stories jeez also pro tip if you really can't handle three chapters of conflict go look up the raws or look up when the story ends this comic only has 51 chapters (excluding the sside stories)
You're the realest here
facts it's like they expact this anxiety riddled 20 year old to magically be self-actualised and say all the right things, despite being scared himself of his future for being queer... I thought the fact that both of them actually talked about their feelings and apologised to each other quite healthy? idk im really baffled with the comment reactions in this one
More people should be reading everything you wrote because yes exactly
I love you so much, you couldn't have said it better
People are so used to being spoonfed bls without actual real conflicts like internalized homophobia and coming out, or struggles w anxiety and overcoming your trauma, that the moment a character shows flaws or even a little bit of insecurities, they jump on them omfg
Fr like god forbid he's scared of homophobia a real and perfectly valid thing to be scared of that's ruined countless lives and even gotten people killed god forbid he doesn't wanna be looked at like a virus or freak on the public stage like he's not some random guy he's literally famous he was on the news over a misunderstanding its perfectly reasonable for him to be terrified especially with this being his first relationship and him being just 20 and this comment section is a reaction every time I see a story that even on a surface level acknowledges the real threat of homophobia and the subsequent fear that comes with possibly experiencing it and its how I know some of these people aren't gay because if they were they'd know it's terrifying I'm very sick of comment sections dragging a character for being a human person who happened to make a bad decision the annoyance this comment section gave me is up there with some of the abuse apologism I see on here constantly
I wish there were more new Japanese BL or at least a better way to filter out Korean BLs I love Korean BLs but sometimes I really just want some Japanese BLs
I know japanese bl just hit different here few my frvt -
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_life_with_you/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shizuku_hanabira_ringo_no_kaori/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/zurui_otoko_ni_hirowaremashita/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/torokeru_kuchibiru/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kono_kiss_wa_kiji_ni_dekinai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/konya_mo_nemurenai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_nest_minaduki_yuu/
You ever notice that in stories where a protagonist trust someone and relies on someone who's an abuser the comments always have more smoke for the protagonist than the abuser like that's weird right the way people get really really mad at protagonist who are victims of abuse for not acting like perfect victims and "being dumb" or whatever or going back to the abuser is weird like idk I'm not a survivor but I can just imagine being a survivor and reading comments of people ridiculing a character for acting in a way that they've done and honestly it's kinda messed up
People always wanna put more blame on the person who's going through abuse than the abuser choosing to mistreat someone and it's weird
I’ve been through it and people need to realize that when it happens you are too emotionally attached to leave like your brain gaslight you into thinking its all good and the abuser knows that too so you really think « but there are happy moments » its hard and long to explain you have to live it to understand it
I refuse to fall for the anti-fucking around propaganda these stories like to push I personally don't think there's anything wrong with dating around as long as everyone's on the same page and I don't think you have to justify why you're breaking up with someone necessarily though it is a nice thing to do but Kiki is such an asshole about it omg of course you got slapped for calling him a pain in the ass is it that hard to like be upfront and kind that was still your boyfriend damn