Everyone saying bear is wrong is just ... no. Heo is being selfish. The least you can do if you truly care and RESPECT someone is let them go if you can't meet them halfway. 12 years is a long time to stand next to someone you love and have them not see you. Now I'm gone, you get to mope around feeling sorry for yourself??? Seo had to watch you futilely chasing someone happy in a relationship, and because his love was real, he wanted you to be happy even though it hurt him. In the end, you lost to Bear but still couldn't let that go. Why should he stay? The final result was a loss Geon won but you still didn't look his way. He had to FINALLY pick himself. Now he's gone, you're seeing his love and care for you everywhere, suck it up!! If you love him even as a friend, you should be wishing him well in whatever he is doing, not feeling sorry for yourself; even now, you're only thinking about yourself. Bear was simply letting him see the bigger picture. He was so tunnel vision on his first love, he treated seo like an assistant frfr not just his work, but also in his attempts to get his first love to love him back, and now Seo is gone, you're smelling his suits and clenching his pillow? LLOOOOOOL PLEASEE. This isn't the behaviour of a man who lost a friend. Get real, that's all Bear is saying.
AHHH NOOOO I NEED TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS NEXT. SHIT I'LL LEARN JAPANESE MY GODDAMN SELF. I NEED TO KNOWWWW