Drealyn's Questions (17)

what's wrong bae

I just feel like I have all the problems in the world hahahahahahha, fam prob, financial prob, relationship prob, studies, friends, like allllllllllll. ☹ It's just draining me, physically and mentally:(

You'll get past this soon

I don't know if it'll help, because I'd also like the peace ◉‿◉. However I keep saying
"This too, shall pass."

Just talk to him about this, maybe he is doing it unintentionally, sometimes people don't realise it (like me, not because I don't like others but I don't just know it) but once you say it they will correct, if not then ┑(￣Д ￣)┍, but just try mentioning this...

We alr talked abt this a few times already, but he keeps on doing it all over again I just feel like he's invalidating my feeling or something, I just want someone to understand me or listen to my rants☹☹ I open up everytime if there's something wrong, he says he would fix it or he would understand but he would not do it

maybe it's time to face talk him seriously or break up, since he kept doing it ( invalidating your feelings) it might as well be intensional now. Talk is the key or break up, there's more people around you who's willing to listen. Because if he did not change in your first talk, he will not change. It will keep happening unless he put effort in acknowledging his mistakes. I'm not saying "break up already" Talk and ask, " why do you keep repeating it?" "is my feelings invalid?" questions like this, since he's dumb in reading someone's feelings, you must emphasize and provoke him. Say all your feelings, don't let it be pent up, it will turn into anger. Hear his side too and think. And then again if you receive a stupid respond, clock him ig. Cheer up and don't let a boy make u feel down, a true man can never.

This is such a good advice, honestly for "dumb" people (with low eq) say very straightforward way don't even do it in some roundabout way because they can't understand nuances , so better be as clear and if it is exhausting there are other fish in the sea (jk) but if it's not bearable better to leave it , sometimes letting go is better

That totally depends on the person. Best thing is to ask the person on question directly and just believe what they tell you. Men are as different as women.

Hardly in the most cases they lose weight or somehow get „handsome“ if it’s not the ideal in the beginning.

As you did not specify the genre I drop some things you might be interested in.

Here is the chubby Tag list:
https://www.mangago.zone/tag/chubby/?page=1

In those they are quite sturdy and don’t change, BL

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/bongchon_bride/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tractor_full_of_love/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_pudgy_co_worker_is_a_snack/

This one is sturdy chubby and gets bulky, SMUT

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sex_exercise/

This one is not manhwa but chubby husband and stays like that, super recommend, FANTASY ROMANCE

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_flowery_path_of_evil/

And in this one he is sturdy and has lotta scars etc stays also like that, FANTASY ROMANCE

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/another_typical_fantasy_romance/

I loved my pudgy coworker is a snack!

WHAT DO I DO FOR THEM TO COMEOUTTTTT

you can try MADK, devilman crybaby, the horizon, banana fish, goodnight pun pun, bokurano, solanin, your lie in april, sundome, and a cruel god reigns ! some of these are quite messed up and/or mature though, but hope you find something youre looking for in this list!

read this last night ist 3 chps but almost cried as someone who didn't cry readinga home far away. https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/spring_snow_odongtong/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/happy_birthday_1/

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