beta
idk who needs to hear this but pain isn’t smth you should measure or compare ever, thinking you don’t have it “that bad” won’t make it go away. ofc self pity isn’t good and there’s always smth to be grateful abt in life but disregarding ur feelings completely just bc you’re not a starving homeless child or a terminal patient or smth will just keep u trapped in situations u DON’T deserve or need to go through and in the self pity spirals without actually solving anything. the reason jinhyeong’s self steem was destroyed was bc he invalidated his own suffering, if u don’t value ur own feelings who will? there’s always someone having it “worse” or “better” than u bro and what can u do abt it? yeah a bunch of nothing, so just stop with this mentality and focus on being okay. whatever that means to you
(not me getting serious in a mangago comment session but wtv)