
I'm so frustrated with this guide. His esper went through a traumatic event. He didn't just lose his memories, he had essentially a alter ego driving his body like he was a puppet. He had no way to consent to anything that happened him!
Then they brought him back by exposing him to the most traumatic thing they could think of.
Now he has to hear about what the person puppeting his body did for months while he was essentially unconscious.
It's going to take time to adjust to that. It's not something that you wake up and you "go oh well I guess I was in a relationship I'll just continue".
The fact that the guide and the comments haven't realized how tough this is for the esper and our only worried about the guide shows how twisted the yaoi community is. Just because someone is a top doesn't mean they're not a human and they don't deserve empathy.