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I know this is a super weird thing to ask opinion on this site BUT I really need y'all opinions!!
Lately, my friends have been getting super close with my ex and when we we're still together obviously my friends weren't that close with him. I think I have moved on from him more because I'm not that much affected on whatever things he does, though I still miss the time we used to spent together. I told it to one of my friends— that I was a little bothered (?) when they openly speak up about him and I think waiting for a reaction out of me. One of my friend said he really like him (not in that sort of way I think just friendly) because that guy suddenly likes K-pop, to be specific Hanni from New jeans. So my friends thought that it was cute. I found it weird (sorry) I said, though my other friend I was with at that time told me I was just being a hater since he was my ex. Things like this happened so many times till now and I really don't know what to feel. I also couldn't open up to them because yk. Yesterday, my friend who's totally obsessed with him said to me that he ranted to my ex because our classmate was going to transfer to another school and said that she don't want that. I really didn't care much about that person going away so I couldn't share the same feelings she was experiencing that time so that's when she said she ranted to my ex. She openly messaged me that they were still talking for like an hour that night maybe like comforting her or something. I felt idk, betrayed and insecure maybe. I don't interact or talk with my ex anymore even though he's in the same class as me. I found it awkward at that start that I get to see him everyday but I don't really care anymore. It just pains me to see sometimes that he gets along so well with my girl friends and I can't do anything about it. Maybe it's just insecurity that I feel like he's able to heal first, and that— I was just there. Idk guys, help me.
I didn't experience somethinjg like this but girl CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS if they know your past with him they shouldn't do this(bcuz they are YOUR friends).avoid them,block them, do something to just cut them off from your life.try making new friends and be happy bcuz if one of my friend did this with me then I will just say "okay, go be friends with him and fk off my life"
hii!! i hope youre doing okay! honestly, youre totally valid to feel kinda wronged in this situation because it would be so awkward for your friends to get so close to your ex, especially if you two dont talk anymore. i think its pretty weird and insensitive how they keep bringing your ex up to you..and im rly sorry theyre doing that and how its making you feel
Yes!! Uhm I'm totally puzzled how to respond everytime she brings up that guy because she already knows + I told her I don't gaf about him anymore and I am still trying to forget about him. I mean I guess I would be fine if they were to be friends and chat, but updating every single thing to me when you usually don't do when you chat with other people?? I feel really awkward
THIS!!!! I already know you would be just fine if the same happened to you ( I really hope it does not) because I just know you are strong. She's my best friend, and I'm not too familiar with breaking off friendships. She literally can get obsessive over someone/something most of the time and I tell her that anyway. I think we can work this out :). I'll talk to her about her actions so she would also know in the future how to not be a bitch. Thank uuu kiikiii
Why are all the new peak BL manhwas suddenly coming out with official translations??? I thought I got a w update but the it was just the same chapter with official translation. Tbh, out of 13 updates from different manhwas, I only got 3 real updates
So relatable but can't help it , we are reading illegally after all. Guess we just gotta wait for the officials to catch up
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