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I can see your point, tho tbh I don’t have much hope for the ‘long nice chat’ considering their communication history

His "secret" though is that he was going out with Jinha. Siwon is acting as though this is shameful and that if people know about them it will destroy his, (and only his because Siwon doesn't care about anyone else) life. Hiding your relationship like that whilst being a grown man because you are too scared about your uni friends opinion is pathetic really. If the uni friends are homophobic then file a report saying you are being discriminated against, or ask them why are they so involved in someone elses business like anyone else would do.... not crying face Siwon though who just abuses his partner instead and runs away.

I would have believe you but raging on school problams while your lover just told you "by the way, someone is blackmail me and threatened me. that someone you hung up with a lot" I tend to see that has a little MORE importent issue then his drama over others in school. he can rage about his drama after that, but sometimes there is more importent things then his problams! that just show you, and in this chapter he did that again too, he just don't care about Jinha or anyone else.
to be fair, Siwon Brought it on himself even after Jinha warn him not to get close ro that crazy guy. I just have nothing good to say about Siwon, nothing. he just an asshole that cross a line.

I agree he brought it upon himself. But you know, by how friendly that bastard sun is acting, how can he believe jinha when he knows nothing? Well, tbh i would also thought jinha is just jealous or something (well he did hit his friend before). Tho i must say, siwon is too stuborn and stupid to not ask or talk anything clearly. Guess he is just a mentally weak person. Tho i agree he crossed the line by blaming everything to jinha. ╮(￣▽￣)╭

I agree it is wrong of him to only think about himself, but well what if you are not strong enough to handle all the emotional stress it will brought to you? There's a lot of cases like this in real life and they choose suicide in the end. Not everyone can be as strong as jinha (he did say he doesnt care one bit). I guess this is what happened to siwon (probably). I'm just trying to look from siwon perspective. (=・ω・=)

yeas the crazy ex was friendly, but Jinha is his boyfriend for god sake! if he can't trust the guy he love the most but trust anyone else, what kind of relationship is that? it's not a real love Relationship if they don't have the besic TRUST from the start. what Siwon seem to not be able to do for like 30 chapter's (￣∇￣") Siwon need to trust him if he wants to stay with him even if he know it from jealousy, end of story.

has for your other comment: "but well what if you are not strong enough to handle all the emotional stress it will brought to you? There's a lot of cases like this in real life and they choose suicide in the end. Not everyone can be as strong as jinha (he did say he doesnt care one bit). I guess this is what happened to siwon (probably). I'm just trying to look from siwon perspective. (=・ω・=) "

I didn't ask Siwon to be strong or to handle it by himself, it is him who choose to do it all the time all by himself, and then he blame all the probalm's on Jinha. first of all, he need to be able to even get what more importent RIGHT NOW then HE himself. yeas I know it is VERY hard, but at least he need to give a little effort to do this. next, he need to stop taking all the anger on Jinha and start to use his head then act on feelings all the time. think and talk with Jinha a little more, work with the guy a little more! it's not that hard.
those cases you talk about mostly end up in abuse Relationship where the husband hit his wife and kill her in the end with their children, we don't want that! leave the reality chack in the real world. I"m not saying he should be strong like Jinha, but at least he should work on his trust and talking with him a little more!
like...you know, spanding more time with him then HIS EX! it the first stap I say.
the problam with Siwon is again he never change, he kept doing the same thing over and over and over. 1. not trusting Jinha, he know he can trust with his life. (he already learn that much!) 2. taking ALL his anger on Jinha and hurting him the best he can, when he have a chance he sure know how to hurt him the best way possible! 3. when they reach a problam or hard Situation, he just run away screaming! and no an adult don't act like this! even a child have a limit to this shit, so it about time he start to work on his anger issues.
the big problam of this comic that it never get solve, it never change. Siwon will keep doing it over and over and over again, until one day Jinha kill himself or leave. I hope Jinha will leave! and Jinha not that strong, actually mantally he much more weaker then Siwon is. he just not showing it that much.
has someone that know what home Jinha had, Siwon should start to think about what he is doing to him, cause it kind of the same like the abuse parents Jinha had.

Like Maychan said in the next comment, I don't think Jinha is particularly "strong" the difference between him and Siwon is that Jinha is not reactive, he not selfish.. even as a child he put the needs and emotions of Siwon and his mother to the detriment of his own safety and wellbeing. Jinha like Siwon is in his twenties so you wouldn't expect him to constantly be crying lashing out and blaming everyone like Siwon is, that doesn't mean he isn't suffering from being basically abused by Siwon as welll as all the previous traumatic experiences he endured with his family. I mean Siwon meets up with the ex despite Jinha clearly being uncomfortable with him because apparently Siwon wanted to know more about Jinha, like bitch just ask the man himself instead of gossiping behind his back. We seem to forget that Siwon is not a child, in any other comic if a man as old as Siwon behaved in such a manner we would be criticising it too. From the start Siwon has not taken responsbility for his actions and blames everyone, he was the one who kissed Jinha to begin with and wouldn't even accept this until that stupid dream sequence clarified things for him.