beta
okay i know this is slop but sunbae saying he was into sadism just bcs of a partner threw me off cause like,, personally and from other ppls experience, you just kinda know? so it's a bit concerning to say you had literally 0 prior interest in it and did it to go along with your partner and ended up... addicted or something. not trying to invalidate the experience of anyone who's like that but i think it's generally unrealistic. also not discussing things like safe wording with a first time partner but ill let it slide cause he was considerate.