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What's the name of Home far away here ?
Idk if that the best place here but look, I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for 2 years, we really love each other but we currently on long distance relationship since a year ago (for family matters and none of us can visit the other, he's 18 and im 17*)
So the thing is that i think I have a crush on someone, that boy was my classmate last year and and we're in the same class this year too. He tried hitting on me last year but i did not to give him attention, but honestly back then I felt an attraction between us, I did my best to ignore it 'coz one of my principle is loyalty yk.
He eventually stopped coz I showed no interest and we kinda stopped interacting but we still exchanged some glance and idk it felt like we wanted to talk but I couldn't and I think he sensed that so he wouldn't make a step too, soo that was it for the rest of the year. Still he stayed in a corner of my mind even during summer vacation. I hated myself for that and I still hate that I think about him even tho I love my bf, I feel so bad...
So since school debuted we see each other again and we make small talks. The problem is that i'm starting to develop feelings again and I don't want them !!! And I do NOT want to break up with my lover, he's truly a good guy and i just don't see why.. i'm so lost with my own needs and feelings it's frustrating
Hey it would have been better if you had posted this in question or experience section! People advise their for any kinda stuff
But i think you should remind yourself what you like about him (your bf) talk to him often do things together even if it's long distance you can still try doing some things together which might help you deattach from the other guy
Trust me this is just an attractive and it won't be worth losing your partner for it ;) don't destroy your relationship for it and it's okay yk it's wrong and you're young ,you don't know what to do it's not your fault but it will be your fault if you take action on the feelings for other guy! One more advice avoid him ig? Do not talk to him and spend more time even if it's online with your bf! Watch something together or have a call or a game together,just try to do things together you'll get reminded why you love him!
Thanks a lot
Anytime <3 you could always contact me if you ever need to talk
I hope you figure out and things become better for you
That would be cool my IG is midnightliver_2997
That's sooo nice (´;v;`) i'm trying to do better sincerely!
My ig is maleeaaaa._.aaaa ;) just followed you and i apologise in advance for my weird ass pfp-
It's alright love I'm sure you'll work it out
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