I just read your spoiler of see u again.
I just want to thank u to make it so clear to me now cause' i was so confused when i read the raw yesterday. ANd also thanks for providing me the logic to justify the action of shiwoon( and other characters too).
I really want to sympathize with shiwoon but did not know how. You kind of shown me the way. Btw, thanks
The recent update was sort of unappetizing to me too. So I checked out the raws. After knowing Shiwoo's backstory I got some perspective on his actions in recent update. Abuse victims have a very distinct POV towards things. I wished for people to be understanding towards Shiwoo and even other abuse victims. Normal people can't comprehend how someone accepts abuse and justify it. Therefore many blame the victims for putting up with it. Its the same case with Shiwoo.
You're welcome. I'm glad someone attained a different perspective towards Shiwoo's situation. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
I do not see how the ML is a huge issue here. He is a sceptic and doesn't believe in the the named partners. For him it is just a superstition since he was a kid, thus he never tried searching for his partner. But when he met MC and felt very compelled to check for his name, but he thought it may be bc of placebo effect since he had the name all his life and he has heard about how named partners are fated and stuff. All while MC has lived his life thinking he is a no-namer, so it makes sense ML is curious if MC would feel attracted to him despite not knowing he is ML's named partner. Also, since he finds the concept to be superstitious, they can just both go their ways if it doesn't happen without any complications. However if he tells MC that they are named partners, the MC's life will be upended as he has always lived as a no-namer. But if things really don't work out, it'll cause even more heartache as they are supposed to be "fated". They'll feel kind of pressured to constantly make it work as they are "fated" and they should unconditionally love eo.
Now they have kind of an ambiguous relationship and they have kissed, so he asked MC out. But the MC suddenly brought someone else saying this is your named partner. Ofc it'll piss him off, he thought they were about to start dating. MC initially stalled saying 'he'll think about it' but instead brought him a rando expecting him to date this person instead of MC. How is it wrong of him to think MC could have just said no and they'd go their own ways. He stopped putting one-sided effort into making it work, how is that wrong? Especially since he knows they are "fated" partners?Isn't it supposed to be all smooth sailing like people say? He is sceptical but he has likely spent all his life hearing how "he'll know once his partner comes along" and that isn't how its going. Isn't it only right that he feels wronged in a way.
Same thoughts.. i am actually more mad at the mc lol
I can see your point of view, but essentially the ML is deceiving the MC. The MC will probably be very upset once he finds out that ML lied about not seeing his name on MCs butt cheek. Like MC will probably think that ML has been playing a game this entire time. Also, I can't blame MC for pushing the ML away bc he ultimately thinks that ML will abandon him once he finds his destined namer partner.
I personally don’t see how you can like mad at either of them cause both of their actions make sense in context of the world.
MC’s since as much as he is attracted to the ML he “knows” that the ML’s destined partner is out there and he doesn’t want to form a relationship that is going to fall apart cause of that. It literally happened to his friend so he has a legitimate confirmed fear.
I think that’s where ML’s experiment while I understand falls short, it doesn’t factor in the emotional response of fear of abandonment of someone unnamed perusing a named person. Or he did potentially factor it in, like if the bond is strong enough to push past those fears.
I’m curious on how it’s gonna resolve, cause one of them has to make a move to establish a further relationship.