beta
I truly wish people would stop saying the blonde’s selfish for wanting to be top or not understanding that sex before was bad. He wasn’t told by his partner or advised on how to do better. Now he’s been bottoming for his partner and although it makes him feel good, it isn’t something he wants to do a lot. As a switch, I don’t like submitting all the time and someone trying to dominate me while I’m in a top headspace is such a turn off. No one yells at the black haired dude for lying about sex and not informing his partner of his preferences or wanting to top all the time. Black hair guy is bad with communication unlike the blonde who is very upfront. I think they’re dealing with their relationship just fine with the amount of complications it had in the beginning. There are leaning switches and if they’re both dom/top leaning then yea it’ll be a bit bumpy to sort out.