I'd say main difference is art and source.
Back in the day most bl, usually called yaoi, were mostly mangas. Because of that shotas were way more common than now. The rapey plots were just as common though. For some reason we still haven't evolved from such "plots".
The art wasn't all that important. Which is how the whole "yaoi hands" and other ...... 2 reply
I don't hate any genre BUT I'm stupidly jealous of power trip type isekai, hunterverse, or anything of the sort. It sounds so cool to suddenly be all op. I would commit heinous crimes to have magic. Also of romcom of any kind (straight, mlm, wlw, ect). It should've been me living that stupid happy lovey dovey life (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸 reply
I wanna re-pierce my industrial, get some helix piercings, and i have planned getting a tattoo on my back
I really regret letting my industrial close ╥﹏╥ reply
So I met a guy while playing. He seemed like a good person so after a month or two of talking we started dating. Of course he sent me pictures of himself, told me his name, where he lives, age and I even got to talk to his parents and friends. He seems legit so I told my mom about him. She panicked when I told her and almost made brake up with him. Eventually mom and him talked on a video call and she calmed down a bit. The problem is she's always suspicious of him and asks tricky questions. I don't want to to suspect he might be a bad person (not that I didn't considered it just don't want to be questioning every little thing he does) but my mom makes it really hard. She even did a background research on him to make sure he was 100% legit. My relationship with him is really good and I really like him but the anxiety of always questioning whether he is real or not hits hard. I never expressed this to him because I don't know how to. Plus his never or rarely given me a reason to doubt him/ given sketchy vibes. I know our way of meeting wasn't the safest and I did take into consideration all that could happen. Just to clarify I'm not a minor just live with an overprotective family. And I have been dating him for a bit now.