Everyone saying seme needs to learn boundaries is fair, but also think about how he'd be feeling. His boyfriend tells him not to come near his workplace. Sure, that's understandable, he doesn't want anyone to find out he's dating a man, seme accepts that. But then he starts coming home later. And then one night he doesn't come home and seme can't get in contact with him, for hours after his shift was supposed to end. I would've been the same as him, panicking that something had happened to my partner. So he goes to the restaurant to make sure he's okay, and finds out uke is just flat out lying to him about what he was doing on top of ignoring his calls. That would've been absolutely heartbreaking for someone so insecure who had never been in a relationship.