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I think I am getting gaslighted here bec for the one of the rare times,, I see the problem wasn't with the seme at all??
Like he does have his issues (like they only meet 10-12 times a year) but I've been into adult romantic relationships lol, my husband and I used to meet every other month bec I live somewhere far away from him via plane trips (so at max, when we dated it was twice a year lol)
Adult relationships are THAT busy unlike most teenage romances where students have the luxury of time to be together (unless ofc similar situation and they're in ldr too but most are either classmates or batchmates when dating)
In fact, I'd hate it more when the person I'm trying my hardest to treat me like I'm not his sex tool by taking me out to dates and the like is more of the adult relationship problem we face (not my hubby ofc)