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Don't listen to anyone who tells you to read Jinx, Killing Stalking, Boku no Pico, Yarichin Bitch Club, or literally anything in the same list as any of these. PLEASE INSTEAD READ: - Anything by (Authors) Brothers Without a Tomorrow - Most things tagged "Shounen Ai" - 19 Days - Here U Are - King's Maker - Hello Green days - Koi Ga Ochitara - Nerd......   3 reply
28 07,2025
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I actually have so many I never got to share. I invite you all to share with me too. Some od these are novels but don't ask me for the title, I forgot   1 reply
08 07,2025

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Juju cat has my heart and soul. I know they're an uploader but I love them   reply
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I'm a... very academic student and chose in-person classes just because I couldn't stand staying home all the time. The policy was that I wasn't allowed in school if I had any covid symptoms which basically mimic basic allergy symptoms. It was fall/winter and we wore masks, so before school I would down an undosed amount of cold medicine, like stra......   reply
15 08,2025
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I'm a religious person who also happens to be a closeted bisexual who is constantly pulled by both sides (aha get it), my entire philosophy is to be respectful but firm. This is a matter of boundries, not just friendship. When it comes to friends who disagree with a fundamental part of you, you're no longer friends anymore. It hurts, but it's the ......   reply
25 07,2025
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Dim 11 07,2025
As a person victim to my country's expensive medical system, I use chatgpt to self-diagnose and find over the counter medicine to deal with it. I also follow up with new symptoms since its responses are instant. But if chatgpt tells you to go to the hospital, you probably should. I've accurately self-diagnosed 100% of the time so far, and I've done......   2 reply
11 07,2025
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I'm gonna take this time to show you my collection of dumb but also hilarious screenshots from real and fictional characters.   5 reply
07 07,2025

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I'm from the U.S but I really wanna buy things from taobao that I can't find anywhere in the u.s. I have siblings who I wanna buy clothes for (because american kid sizes are too big and unfashionable asf) and I'm getting mixed signals from reddit users. Some say I need to verify my account or something and others say to just go for it? Can anyone help out? I'd appreciate it
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Dim 22 08,2025
WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK??

ITS AMAZING IM GONNA REVEL IN IT FOR MONTHS. All the songs remind me of a lot of manga I read. My favorites are Forget Me Not and Sabotage.
22 08,2025
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I need your answers <3 I know the protocology department has tons of medical malpractice, but I want to see what you guys know
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Dim 20 07,2025
Nothing worse than a red flag dressed up as a green flag. Like authors intentionally add in some detail to make the protagonist seem better when it's indeed a massive red flag. For example, Tyrant's Disabled Pet Fish. Righteous protagonist right? Sentenced a guy who's trying to survive a lifetime in jail and abuse for accusing him of being a fish (which is true) and a chapter later, establishes a modern feminist federation... I loved the lightness of the novel until the end. Terrible. Left a bad taste in my mouth.
20 07,2025
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And I don't mean or love interests being added in last minute and have 0 contributions to the story (because those are common sense), I mean something uncommon, slightly unhinged, or even curious.

For me, it's when someone claims another person and says "You're mine." Now I'm a romantic person and I totally get the sentiment, but I think booktok or some various forms of toxic literature has taught me the consequences of ownership and obsessive hypermasculinity in both straight and queer works.
Like I'm reading a fluffy BL where it checks all the boxes of a good romance and then at the end, they confess and they're like "Finally, you're mine." No form of "You're mine/I'm yours" will do me any good. It's just nonsensical to me and it's just outright strange for me to consider it the slightest bit romantic. Logically I get the sentiment. Having someone as your partner and claiming loyalty or attatchment to them is perfectly healthy and normal. But the phrase "You're mine/I'm yours" just doesn't hit right. It sounds more possessive and materialistic than romantic.

HOWEVER HOWEVER HOWEVER. No shame on you couples who say this. It's only my personal opinion because of the culture surrounding the phrase. Usually they don't end well, is what I've figured out from it, but if it works for you, I have no issues with that. It's just, manhwa that use this phrase usually just fall down a certain rabbit hole.
03 07,2025