Luta's Manga

(I was very frustrated when I wrote this review. This is my first review ever. I never reviewed any other manwha or novels. Even the ones that I love to death but this manwha made me do it *sighs* anyway this review is all over the place and riddled with spoilers so proceed with caution?
Read the reviews but I still wanted to give this a chance since it has a unique setting. However I was thoroughly disappointed. The fl is an absolute doormat for the ml. She is competent because she spent the her first lifetime learning administration, archery, etiquette etc to win ml's heart. But still she disappoints at every turn. Her choices don't make sense and don't align with her resolve to live her new life away from ml's clutches. The point where it all started to go downhill for me was when the red haired prince (I forgot his name) offered fl to run away to his country via ship. I was glad she didn't accept his offer... however! Why did she have to run away that exact night? (Too much unnecessary drama to make the plot go forward