
yor worrying about her secret and feeling as if she cannot live a regular life or have a proper romance is understandable -- but like her boss, there's the hope that your partner can accept that aspect of your life
but when it comes to loid -- he's basically faking his personality and entire existence (his bond w anya) and that would prob hit yor really hard (she's been genuine aside from... being a murderer lol)
i think it's more likely for yor to be unable to accept all loid's lies as opposed to her secrets (( it'll prob be a "i believe the bonds and love i see within our home so you weren't lying" typa resolution tho ))