Katyfaye's Topics (24)

He is reprehensible. There is not even one redeeming quality about the man. There is nothing he can do to make me like him. Because of that ring and what Jehee is doing nothing MC does will be truly consensual, even if he thinks it is. Jehee is using punishment and reward to train him, the MC's affection will never be genuine. It will be trained behavior and self preservation so this can never be a consensual relationship on a equal footing with mutual respect. Even if the ring is removed and the MC is given a 'choice' the training has already happened so the relationship is forever tainted. You can see the punishment already affecting his unconscious behavior, his brain is literally being rewired to believe his survival is dependent on pleasing Jehee. In real world situation with similar brainwashing, a person can come to believe that their tormentor only has their best interest at heart and if they don't understand why the punishment or reward is happening, it's just that they don't understand yet. If you don't explain the rules and keep a person trying to guess what they did right or wrong, you leave them off balance. A 'punishment' without explanation, is ineffective unless your intention is to break the person down and conform them to your will. If he had no control over and it was actually based on his genuine mood, he still couldn't be forgiven, but he couldn't be fully to blame for mentally conditioning the MC.

Go read My Sadistic Master for a realistic BDSM dynamic. It depicts what an actual Dom/Sub relationship should be like, brutal and harsh during play, but gentle and caring during aftercare. He whips his little sub, then gently applies salve to his welts when they are done. The little sub does something wrong, and after talking it out and dealing with the actual issues, with the sub apologizing Dom asks what he should do if he's sorry. Sub replies that he should be punished, and takes his Dom's hand and puts it on his neck and asks to be choked. When they don't see each other for a while the Sub runs to him, happy to see him. In fact, in the beginning the Dom is hesitant because the Sub is inexperienced and there is an age difference, the Sub is in college and in his early 20's and the Dom is in his mid 40's. So for a long time he just takes the kid to dinner and talks to him about school since the Dom is in the field the Sub is studying. Sub has to literally throw himself and the Dom before anything happens. Just go read it, the Sub loves everything that happens and the Dom is super caring.

What do you mean your her boyfriend? You ran off when she was pregnant and never looked back and what? You feel guilty now that your old? You are not her boyfriend and you are not his father, you were just a sperm donor you piece of trash. But I know Ho will try to help them reconcile cause he doesn't want Haebom to have any regrets and would do anything to help heal his trauma. Fuck, it's amazing the Haebom is able to be as open and loving as he is with Ho considering, so his mother must have been amazing. And if she was an amazing enough woman to raise suck a kind, considerate and loving child as Haebom, how dare that fool leave her. I'm so pissed off at that man. But on a side note, I'm glad they aren't bringing the baby's mom back and hope they never do. She'll be fine with her two dads.

She probably has the wrong Chinese characters. Like it's the right name, but the characters are wrong so it's not him. It's just a weird coincidence. That's what I think anyway.

Yeah, well buddy we've all been through some shit but we don't rape and abuse the people who love us in later life. Like I've said a thousand times before, someone's past can inform on they behavior but should never be used to excuse their behavior.

Right so to sum up, they both died unfairly so were sent back, but with no memory. But the prince killed himself in a past life, so he pursued her with that knowledge but that wasn't their fate. And even though he didn't remember anything the reason ML slept around was he wanted subconsciously protect her. So in his first life he married her and they were in love but they died unjustly probably because of the prince. In the second life he loved her and didn't sleep with anyone because of his love and that hurt her, in third life he slept around but still tried to protect her in other ways but couldn't save her. And now they are in their third life. The prince has to live out his fate and die as he should for this cycle to end. He remembers the past lives, all of them. Ines only remembers three of them. And Carcel is getting memories of all of them now. That's why the prince was always jealous of them, even when they had no contact, because he knew they loved each other in their first lives. If he would just butt out the cycle would end, he's the one who keeps it going by not accepting his fate. I think it's likely that the prince caused their deaths in that first life because of his obsession with her.

It's like I always say "F**k your tragic backstory". It's about to tell us all about his #manpain to try to make us all sympatric toward him. He needs to suffer more NOW for what he's done to Kim Dan, regardless of what happened to him in the past. The past can inform on a persons motivations, but should never be allowed to justify a persons behavior. Regardless of the bullying or mistreatment he got in the past, he still raped and used Kim Dan and if he is forgiven this easily I'm going to be angry. He needs to crawl and beg. He needs to humble himself and admit that what he did. Hell, he didn't ever try to make Kim Dan enjoy it. Never forget that Kim Dan wasn't into it for a while, he didn't get an erecting until they had sex several times, Jaekyung even comments on it when he does get hard for the first time during sex. It's like, you idiot, if he's not hard he's not getting anything from it.

Only a man would have taken this long to figure it out.

I think the niece is an alpha or omega and that the dad and brother want to pair a kid ML and MC have up with her, gross.

I hate a lot, but what I hate most is that it portrays BD/SM relationships as inherently wrong. He's afraid of falling back into old patters? If you get off on pain, that's not a bad thing. Everyone in this was just doing it wrong. One guy was an abuser full stop, one was processing his own issues by pushing someone who with no experience into a sexual kink that wasn't his, and finally you have the guy who is insecure and full anger and allows himself to be pushed and pulled until he lashes out. They all suck and none of them actually know anything about a real BD/SM relationship. As a person in the lifestyle it pisses me off to see these things. Going to go read My Sadistic Master now to read a more accurate portrayal of the culture.