bighomo July 24, 2025 5:57 am

does anyone know a bl where the mc deals with feeling inadequate and unlovable (or something along those lines).

bighomo July 22, 2025 8:41 am

i personally am fed up with seeing so many manly bottom BLs. I feel like it’s overdone atp like feel like it’s getting a bit harder to find a story with a fem leaning bottom. where are the long hair bottoms! this is a stretch but it’s how i feel but this masc4masc things im seeing feels reductive in a way? (this is coming from a gay man with long hair). also why is it that in omegaverse, that the omegas are always like powerless to the alphas, like i wanna see one where the omega and their pheromones or something is the driving force instead of the alphas, maybe the omega could mark an alpha but the alpha can’t necessarily mark them w/o permission or something, but anyways i think it would be cool to see a power struggle with a alpha and omega on the same playing field. piggybacking off that it’s understandable that alpha x alpha is something im seeing quite a bit off. having them both alphas has that power struggle element and shock factor but imo why have the setting be omegaverse atp like i feel like it’s unnecessary but if someone knows a really good alpha x alpha where the alpha part actually plays a role in the plot (and not where it’s like “forbidden” type of way. kinda cliche).

    han marus foreskin July 22, 2025 8:47 am

    dude, chill the ratio of manly bottoms in bl are like 10% compared to the 90% which r the fem bottoms let us manly bottom enjoyers have our moment bro. ur basically the image of john goodman in family guy eating everything on thanksgiving and complaining

    MydeiPounder July 22, 2025 8:54 am

    My god I swear it ain't this serious and if you really wanna read girly twink stuff i swear 4 out of every 5 bl is prolly right there for you. We just started getting more masculine stuff, and me personally I think that's representative to many as wel

    han marus foreskin July 22, 2025 9:05 am
    My god I swear it ain't this serious and if you really wanna read girly twink stuff i swear 4 out of every 5 bl is prolly right there for you. We just started getting more masculine stuff, and me personally I t... MydeiPounder

    right?? like just 5 years ago u would have to search thru the fucking himalayas to find a good manly uke yaoithere were like a few out there and most of the time the story/plot was pure bullshit and rn we finally getting sum versatility

    bighomo July 22, 2025 9:17 am
    My god I swear it ain't this serious and if you really wanna read girly twink stuff i swear 4 out of every 5 bl is prolly right there for you. We just started getting more masculine stuff, and me personally I t... MydeiPounder

    but they kinda suck most of the times. also did u even read the title this was a unserious complain rant

    bighomo July 22, 2025 9:19 am
    right?? like just 5 years ago u would have to search thru the fucking himalayas to find a good manly uke yaoithere were like a few out there and most of the time the story/plot was pure bullshit and rn we final... han marus foreskin

    trends change and rn the trend is manly bottom. but i’ll say the stories are better now than before all around for everything. let a bitch complain about nonexistent issues

    AngelTheAngel July 22, 2025 9:27 am

    Istg i saw a similar rant a couple days ago here?? What is this propaganda? Im not falling for it

    bighomo July 22, 2025 9:28 am
    dude, chill the ratio of manly bottoms in bl are like 10% compared to the 90% which r the fem bottoms let us manly bottom enjoyers have our moment bro. ur basically the image of john goodman in family guy eati... han marus foreskin

    idk where ur seeing majority fem bottoms. there’s a difference between a twink and a fem. i was thinking fem as in brettman rock fierceness but maybe u don’t know what im talking about

    bighomo July 22, 2025 9:30 am
    Istg i saw a similar rant a couple days ago here?? What is this propaganda? Im not falling for it AngelTheAngel

    that was probably me, i love complaining!

    MydeiPounder July 22, 2025 9:33 am
    that was probably me, i love complaining! bighomo

    Yeah we can tell

    MydeiPounder July 22, 2025 9:34 am
    but they kinda suck most of the times. also did u even read the title this was a unserious complain rant bighomo

    No I didn't notice the title cuz ur big ass para took my attention my bad gang

    bighomo July 22, 2025 9:43 am
    No I didn't notice the title cuz ur big ass para took my attention my bad gang MydeiPounder

    all fine. it’s just some random thoughts that spiraled into a paragraph and i wanted to just get it off my chest yk

    han marus foreskin July 22, 2025 10:14 am
    Istg i saw a similar rant a couple days ago here?? What is this propaganda? Im not falling for it AngelTheAngel

    #THEY are trying to manipulate us twin...dont fall for #THEIR sly tricks..

    bighomo July 22, 2025 10:33 am
    #THEY are trying to manipulate us twin...dont fall for #THEIR sly tricks.. han marus foreskin

    enlighten me on why manly bottom is better oh holy savior

    han marus foreskin July 22, 2025 10:54 am
    enlighten me on why manly bottom is better oh holy savior bighomo

    didnt say they are better, i just personally prefer manly bottoms but the fact ur so bothered not every yaoi ever created aligns with YOUR personal taste is..something...

    bighomo July 22, 2025 11:15 am
    didnt say they are better, i just personally prefer manly bottoms but the fact ur so bothered not every yaoi ever created aligns with YOUR personal taste is..something... han marus foreskin

    i personally favor more cute bottoms but have yet to see many actual fem bottoms in modern BL. i read all kinds of BL but it doesn’t mean i can’t complain. you’re just exaggerating what i said

bighomo July 21, 2025 10:59 am

why don’t we see my verse couples in BL, like it feel so rigid to just lock a character into 1 position like bitch 1 could be top 70% of the time and the other will top 30% of the time.

bighomo July 18, 2025 11:22 am

i think i’m just a hater at heart but like i hate seeing BLs with alpha x alpha, enigma x alpha, sometimes beta x alpha, and manly man x manly man who’s taller. my hate comes from i guess you could say from if i imagined myself in that type of fictional universe. like alpha x alpha and enigma x alpha feel to me like seeing a 6ft+ big dick strict bottom like that’s the type of greed the bible talks about (half joking. but i think more people should be verse but ofc u can’t force that). for beta x alpha i just don’t like it when the bottom is alpha, same reasoning as alpha x alpha but also they should be verse! there’s not that many verse manhwas ive seen but maybe im just not looking at the right ones. and for manly man x many man who’s taller, it just boils down to ive seen too much of that shit and i see in the comments of webcomics with more fem bottoms saying how much they hate the fem bottom like jfc let people be. i feel like there’s so much femphobia (this is coming from a fem leaning gay man), every fucking bitch seems to be masc4masc, irl and the BL readers. this femphobia with BL readers feels the same as (at least to me) the situation of a guy bringing home his fem leaning bf and his parents saying i thought you were bringing a man, so they basically dismiss the bfs manliness (im probably stretching but this is how i feel). i need to see more fem leaning mc’s that also have long hair and are more dominant! end of rant, this is just me complaining but im launching it into the void so i can at least get it off my chest. also for people who say “the mc/ml looks like a child”, i can see what you mean but sometimes i just dont see it, like they just have a cute face? but id like to hear some reasoning from people bc im curious how people say that so pls respond if thats you! genuinely curious!

    your fave side hoe July 18, 2025 1:28 pm

    for fem guys in bls theres often a common strand of thought that people read bls to see mlm but sometimes the fem guys are so feminine its like the author wants to draw a straight couple- especially with nipple sucking or saying "ur bootyhole looks like a pussy". and i think for me its best when the author attempts to mention their gender identity? iykwim..
    this isnt me trying to undermine fem leaning men at all, so v sorry if it comes off that way good sir
    and with the childlike thing- drawing characters shorter, having baby faces, saying its all for the "height difference" the authors make them look like a child but expressly say, "they're 21 they had a traumatic childhood because they were bullied for being short" and in some cases, yes, it works, but in others its pure pédophilie masked with the authors interjection of their age. take the "i may be big" (idk what it is) which is on the homepage rn- its obvious masked paedophilia.
    one of the problems i personally have with fem leaning guys in manhwas is the skinniness!! constantly pushing into boxes like the bottom has to be skinny, being able to see their ribs, saying "i cant grow muscle!", always eating but never gaining weight but not exercising.., the list goes on
    (but thats just my peeve because anorexia is a growing concern with the modern age)

    bighomo July 18, 2025 2:40 pm
    for fem guys in bls theres often a common strand of thought that people read bls to see mlm but sometimes the fem guys are so feminine its like the author wants to draw a straight couple- especially with nipple... your fave side hoe

    yea i don’t really like the comparison of the fem guys hole being a pussy feels demeaning. and yea i don’t them to be drawn basically like a girl. like for example i think in “k’s secret” near the end of the series they drew they guy really pretty but still a man. it’s a hard balance but not impossible. also in “excuse me dentist, it’s touching me” the mic is pretty and cross dresses but i feel like the way their drawn is yea they’re pretty but i feel like more is androgynous. i personally like height differences but yea that “i may be big” webcomic they r drawn wayyy to childlike. authors need to actually draw short men in more realistic ways and i agree with the skinniness its way too much like its scary skinny. i need to see short fem bottoms with body tea. i feel like since it seems like a lot of BL manhwas are made by women, is that they either consciously or unconsciously make the uke “woman like” if that makes sense. and yea eating disorders are def on the rise again which is scary!

    your fave side hoe July 18, 2025 9:03 pm
    yea i don’t really like the comparison of the fem guys hole being a pussy feels demeaning. and yea i don’t them to be drawn basically like a girl. like for example i think in “k’s secret” near the end... bighomo

    yesyes u get me bro
    its probably cus of the whole manhwa needs to have sex in it so that always presents the "whos top and bottom" and people just see whoevers feminine as the one taking it

bighomo June 23, 2025 3:28 pm

any recs for yaois with obsessive tops that are submissive to the bottoms. preferably more fem/cute bottoms!

bighomo May 7, 2025 11:00 am

I really need some recs of some yaoi with a femboy/pretty uke. Pls help >.<

Sakura January 30, 2021 8:46 pm

i feel like it’s kinda queerbaiting in a way and always urks me when i see it. and in the comics their relationship is seen as ok cause it’s a girl not a guy type of situation. could someone give some insight?

edit: i think it’s useless for comics to be gender bender when it’s just used as something simple and never elaborated on and has no significance to the story. the only gender bender thing i’ve ever been okay with is “Excuse Me Dentist, It's Touching Me!” bc it’s used as a story element not just some add on to make the comic a certain category such as BL/straight.

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