
Self harm is when you harm youself, right? Typing this make me feel stupid cuz it's self explanatory. But I feel like ppl here have criteria for SH. Like if you're an unstable person who's having suicidal thoughts, or someone who has trauma might resort to SH but it's a diff. story when it comes to hurting yourself for undivided attention or your SO? Is the word self-harm reserved for when you're feeling suicidal. Enlighten me.
Generally speaking, yes, self harm is still self harm regardless of why you’re doing it. Whether it’s for attention or because it distracts you, being suicidal, or whatever.
I think when people talk about that, their criteria is because maybe they are specifically looking for a story with characters who are genuinely struggling with their mental health which makes them resort to self harm, rather than characters who are doing it purely for the sake of attention from another character? Because the dynamics in stories like that are going to be entirely different. But who knows. Either way, it’s still self harm.
Self harm literally is yeah..harming one own self
Butttt
Ppl use this term when talking abt depression and suicidal tendencies. But not reserved for suicidal only
I know ppl who self harm for other reasons but all mental health issues:
1. Attention
2. Depression
3. To feel something
4. Forget pain
(But these all fall under depression anyway)
REMEMBER THAT SELF HARM IS NOT A SOLUTION AT ALL. IT ONLY ADDS TO YOUR PROBLEMS.
it helps to talk to someone and if you have no one then hit me up (●'◡'●)ノ
I'm so obsessed with semes who yearns for their uke. Can ya'll be a doll and recommend me more stories like Dash and Melting Point? Idc if they're green flag but those who are down bad, freaky but they don't let it show to their SO. Like they're always secretly pining for them.
I found the two stories really similar but it doesn't have to be like that, I'm looking to the top's personality more.
Eurghhh that bitch is so annoying, I know this is not just bc of Noona but it definitely triggered smth in him bc she chose Jiwoo. Fuck, hope he gets schooled soon.