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I always hear that “Yaoi fetishizes male gay relationships” and “shonen ai” or stuff without sex in it is the true gay “experience” so can i get some Yaoi that ACTUALLY fetishizes them bc most of the yaoi I SEE doesnt have that. Other than random strictly porn doujins i come across. Not trying to sound combative or rude i just wanna know what yall consider fetishizing bc i feel like the term is lost