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Why is older uke x younger seme not seen as problematic? Especially with some stories that have uke raising their younger semes or being involved with seme when the seme was very young to then becoming romantically involved with them later on.
As well as other stories that portray the younger seme as more competent, mature - beyond their age -, and or adjusted well in life which is either contrasted by uke or uke isn't up to par to the same level. I feel like these stories infantilise uke while also adultifying the younger seme who through their age would obviously have to still be immature to some degree especially compared to the Uke.
I don't know, although my major gripe with this dynamic though is the adultification of the younger seme. I mostly ask this because there's always concerns being vocalized about older seme x younger uke especially towards the younger individual, but not that much for older uke x younger seme dynamic. Is this is a valid reason of concern though?