gumdrops's Things

Saw this tiktok not too long ago.. some white girl was posting ab how she loves asian guys.. honestly, it couldve been js her type.. but the way she worded it really threw me off

i think they said like "I really want an asian" and "I want an asian soo bad"
err that was really strange for me
am i reading into it too much?

Wht do yall think ab that?
Ive seen a whole lotta people saying that having a best friend of opposite gender is a "red flag" bc guys n girls cannot be friends

so, if ure lesbian, like does ur gf have to cut off all her best friends because theyre girls? Same goes for gay guys.. like I only see straight ppl making a big deal out of this. And ppl saying their partners MUST cut off all friendships w their friends js cuz theyre girls or guys are lowkey giving me insecure middle school relationship vibess.. sorry

like, if my guy friend told me we couldnt talk anymore cuz of his gf, its fine w me and ill completely respect it and cut him off
but if my partner had a girl friend, i genuinely would not mind at all n i wouldnt cut off my guy friends js bc i got a boyfriend but Obviously, I'll have respectable boundaries between us like im not gonna be touchy, or flirty and be some weirdo yk

Idk, what do yall think

What should I get?? Honestly I wanna use the ipad to like draw and play games but ughh i also wanna play valorant and other games on my laptop..
like i have one right now but it cant handle those games.. i played minecraft and i was stuck on like 40 fps.. but laptops are SO expensive!!!!!! like two times more expensive than the ipad

what do i do..

like i dont mean i tripped down 2 steps of stairs i mean GENUINLY embarassing.. like it keeps u up at night and it haunts u till u die

Like, if your partner cheats on you, but they apologize and promise they'll change and they DO show signs of changing and becoming better.. but would you still date them and get back together?? Like, is it possible to change?