
Okay so, they both were somewhat wrong, sejin, being blinded by an ounce of love or recognition from his family stole the documents, felt guilty, and when shit came down to it apologized, didn’t see truly apologetic though. Ido had every right to be angry at this point, he could have called off the engagement, reported him for theft or something, but no, he decided to mentally abuse him, because what he did was give him the silent treatment or worse which was not even acknowledge him. His brother rapes him brutally and all sejin understands is that this is Ido’s doing, that he wanted this. Then Ido comes home asks who it was, and from what I think, he understands that he did it accordingly, that’s why he then says, “you can’t sleep with other people” what I don’t understand though and can’t excuse in ANY way is the rape. Sejin wasn’t in heat. What Ido did cannot be excused because there’s not a single reason that explains why he did that, he did it out of spite and anger, and that’s worse if you ask me, that’s violent and a horrible thing. Same with the bj. They we’re both wrong, one is far worse than the other, but they were both wrong, and also didn’t take responsibility, sejin tried, but wasn’t given the opportunity or time to do so, I feel like Ido did feel guilty, he was just too angry and righteous to apologize.