The size in smut is definitely not real lol Most of the time is so big I don't really find it sexy honestly.
But anyways, there were already good responses here, I just want to add that, even if it's small, that isn't the end of the world.
Smut focuses waaaay to much in the penetration, when in reality sex is much more then that. If penetration wa...... reply
When one of the characters had a secret crush on the other for YEARS and made a convoluted plan to get their crush. It can be well done, but a lot of the time it sounds manipulative.
It's usually the big plot twist of the story and I'm already 4 of 6 chapters in, it's frustrating. reply
When the person who is in love is WAAAAY too pushy.
I mostly see comments saying these stories are cute and wholesome, or even healthy.
First of all, not forcing have sex in the first chapter, or at all, is the BARE MINIMUM. Second, being pushy and not respecting a "no" is horrible too. I've read so many stories that goes exactly like this:
Guy fal...... reply