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I just dropped a story where overwhelming majority readers were calling the top a green flag and saying he's so respectful and wasn't forceful at all and hoping that kind of love finds them irl, all just because he didn't penetrate the bottom against his will. The top was in fact crossing all boundaries though, trying to force kisses that were rejected, then kissing the neck next because "you said no kisses and this is not your lips". Just overall coming off coercive and pushy. The bottom was obviously a pushover who keeps allowing it but that's besides the point.
People fr consider anything a green flag just because the bar is rape. As long as it's not rape, they're green. Ong the standard for being a good guy is in hell (￣ε(#￣)Σ