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in a quite tight situation rn, got inquired if i read yaoi or yuri i answered that i only read yaoi so i got pressed up for why i read yaoi when i dont even touch the latter ? its not like i hate it or smth, it's just not my game the question is, is it normal ? its ironic ik, i'm a woman myself and in the spectrum of the rainbow, pansexual to ......