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How do you handle Long distance friendship where the friend don't text you back? You know that she looks at them but leave you on the read and the excuse she gave you is that she's too busy. Should I end the friendship or should I try to understand her situation and continue the friendship? Or is the problem me? Share your wisdom.
Dont overly pursue the friendship and dont give up on your friends either.
I dont think she wants to text you back from what you've said, so say something like, hey i know youve been busy and stuff but I hope you know Im always there for you or whatever..you know, basically let her know, you've tried your best to contact her but now its her turn to try if not the friendship is done. But text that in the nicest way possible haha...because we cant force relationships..it has to occur naturally
Had the same friend, I just stopped being friends with them. If they want to talk to you they will find a way but if they don't want to they'll give a lot of excuses is my thought process. Probably not the best action though lol. My advice is if you're gonna end the friendship at least give closure cause me and my friend sure didn't.
Some people are just genuinely busy at times and may not have the energy to text you back even when they ARE free. I get that being left on read can be frustrating especially if you feel like you’re the one putting more effort into the friendship but I feel like the key here is to never take things personally. Usually it isn’t even about you, unless you’ve got beef/tension or something but then otherwise why are you even friends.
Long distance friendship is already a very hard thing to maintain. No one is obligated to each other’s time but if you feel frustrated in this dynamic maybe it’s time to take a step back. When she’s ready she’ll text you again or respond and if not, then you have your answer. I say the move here is to not be pushy with it like someone else said. Let things flow.
You don't need to end the friendship. She could be genuinely busy or may have different responsibilities. Just give her some space and after some time reach out to her and if she ghosts you again then I believe you will get your answers.
And yeah, if you think between your friend, don't work out, then please don't end the friendship on a bitter term. You will never when you will meet her face to face in the future.
Ah! Little typo in the second paragraph. I was saying that if things don't work out between you and your friend.
Have you ever feels tired of always giving and never expected anything in return?
Yes . But now I stop giving . That is too lonely sometimes because most of them don’t give me anything unless I give them all of my best but you know even though we don’t expect anything from them but life is need give and take and we are human after all . We want them to remember what we give . But some are too selfish they just want to RECEIVE not GIVE . Our feelings are hurt by that . So now I wait one to give me first and then I give my best to that one always . So you will only get the real people around you . But the amount of real people are alway small numbers.T_T
Get out of that relationship, or just go no contact. They'll never give you anything and anything and everything you say will be ignored or used against you. For your own peace, just leave even if it's hard.
Learn about boundaries in relationships, would save you from hundreds of headaches and heartaches.
I can only wish that the dickhead emperor change for better and that the story will improve. They don't deserve to suffer because of the dickhead emperor who only complicates things