I made a comment on a video earlier and I said “sorry I think the men in my BL are fine” and got a reply that basically said “do you not realize what you said was wrong” did I say something wrong?? Am I not allowed to find the gay man attractive?? It’s not like they’re real and I’m acting like I have a chance with one of them
I wouldn't worry about that too much, the numbskull that replied to you is most likely also a BL reader who's only reading it for the hot dudes too so idk why they're acting holier than thou or w/e.
Also it's not wrong to say someone is attractive, regardless of their or your sexuality, I mean I'm a lesbian too but I'm not blind lol, I can think a dude is hot without actually wanting them.
Online all the time I see people’s main defense for hating fujoshi’s is “well the fujoshi’s I’ve met all sexualize real gay men.” Or “you all walk up to gay guys and ask who’s top and who’s bottom.” Like has anyone actually met someone who does that?? How common is it? Is it so common that it’s become a stereotype
Still sad and disappointed with this ╥﹏╥