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From my perspective, the mother hasn’t done anything wrong. Since when is it inappropriate for a mother to ask her son if he’s dating someone and whether she’s a good person? Why would she be expected to ask, "Are you dating a man?"—especially if she comes from a traditional or Christian background? It’s not something most mothers in such environments would naturally consider.
Even if she has certain beliefs or biases, it doesn’t mean she deserves harsh criticism. It’s understandable that her reaction may not have been ideal, but expecting immediate acceptance isn’t always realistic. Just because society is becoming more open-minded doesn’t mean everyone is on the same page—some need time to adjust, while others may never accept it.
At the end of the day, people have the right to be with whomever they choose, but from a mother’s perspective, any unexpected news about her child’s life can evoke a strong reaction. And when it comes to deeply religious families, their beliefs often shape their views, whether others agree with them or not. It’s important to be realistic about these differences instead of expecting instant change.