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Y’know, even as someone who has a lot of the same problems as the FL, I just can’t seem to sympathize with how she is handling things with the love interests. As far as I can tell she has a very unhealthy attachment style. She gets extremely attached to the people around her but is in denial about it. She been abandoned repeatedly and that reflects on how she allows relationships to develop. She also doesn’t believe she can feel love or have very unhealthy expectations for someone she will allow herself to love. And the worst part is she’s aware of all of this but cant really come to terms with it. Her situation doesn’t help but looking at it another way, it’s a perfect situation for healing. But she hasn’t really allowed herself to heal. People come and go, life is ever shifting and developing. Someone who was with you today isn’t guaranteed to be with you tomorrow. Which is terrifying, I totally get it. But leading others on the way she’s doing just feels so dirty. I feel like Josh has the most sense of reality when it comes to the FL. He’s been with her constantly since the beginning while the other 2 have been separated long enough to have formed a fantasy in the minds about her. Anyway, she need to establish better forms of while every form of communication. But yeah, she needs to get a hold of herself, you can’t just lead people on like that. She just needs to be straight up but I feel like it might not even happen .