Chips Ahoy's Things

It had a superior at work too (maybe black hair) who was really harsh scolding the bottom (maybe brown hair) and the bottom felt bad so he’d have rough sex with someone to punish himself;; and there was a scene where the top was overhearing the bottom being fucked in a bathroom and the guy fucking him was dirty talking about the whole “self punishing cuz he’s scolded at his job” thing;; and it was either manga or manhwa;;;

I’m kinda embarrassed asking about this but I haven’t been able to find it so ╥﹏╥