Both are toxic as fuck. Man, Leo is such an idiot I don't believe he will truly change just for J.J.'s sake (he'll, in 5 years he didn't even think so until J.J. broke up with him) and J.J. is also toxic as hell.
Not only not communicating things but choosing the time when THE OTHER ONE IS NOT EVEN LISTENING. Like. Fucking when he's blatantly ignoring you and asking you to move from their line of vision just to keep playing. Of course it's the perfect time to talk about a job offer you've been considering. It was just normal Leo wouldn't know CUZ HE WASNT EVEN PAYING ATTENTION.
And also Leo, fucking disgusting eating chips in the sofa and leaving the crumbs and using outside shoes inside the house when you have a "No shoes inside the house" policy. Yeah, he's a narcissist and J.J. should get away from him. It's hard to get away from someone you've learned to love and care for, but them saying "Oh, I'll change for you" just seems like a red flag that they'll most likely won't change xd. Just leave before you get hurt more.
And for people telling that J.J. didn't rape Leo in that chapter 13 and 14. He did.
First of all, Leo wanted to do it in a hotel, but I.J. wanted to do it right then and there. Leo wasn't okay with it, but j.j. coerced Leo into agreeing threatening to back off from the agreement of being fuck buddies. That's not consent xD. Even if Leo and J.J. both agreed to being sex buddies, it's done with both consent on the location, times, using or not a condom, etc. Leo was coerced into it at that moment with J.J. threatening to undo the agreement, and even J.J. was purposefully rough on Leo, and didn't even stop nor slowed down despite Leo telling him to do so.
J.J didn't even loosen up Leo appropriately before putting his dick in, he could've hurt him and tear something up (ofc for the sake of the story that didn't happen but irl preparation is the most important part to not hurt your partner AND J.J. MISSED THAT)
EVEN LEO SAID IT HURT!!!
ARE WE GOING TO MISS THAT??????
I reiterate. Both are pieces of shit and toxic mf that should go to fucking therapy (Leo might not work out cuz narcissist people are hard to manage for therapy), they both have their share of fault for that shaky and awful relationship they had and not knowing how to fix it (mostly cuz it's not even fixable) but man, J.J. even had to force himself onto Leo aaaahhhhhh. That. Is. Rape.
Even within a fuck buddy relationship, rape can still happen. Rape can happen in marriage too. Rape is not bound only to people you're not even familiar with. It can happen from a friend, to your boyfriend/girlfriend, to your ex and your spouse.
I will forever be hater of J.J.
If J.J. no longer has a hater, it's cuz I'm dead.
J.J. what the fuck? I understand it's not easy to move on from a breakup, much less from someone you've grown to care and love for five whole years. It's five years of feelings you're not supposed to process within a few months (and yes, that's why a lot of people go back with their exes even though either them or their ex were a pos).
You wanted Leo to realise he messed up and have a him give a genuine apology. But the fuck is you with "instincts"? Was your dick the one making the decisions here? Was it your dick keeping you from communicating shit to Leo even though we know he might've ignored you cuz let's be real he's an idiot? Was your dick the one who thought it was a good idea to force yourself onto Leo when he was making the offer of being fuck-buddies???
Now you're just playing with him man. Disgusting. Don't give him and yourself false hopes that your relationship can go to what it was before. Nuh uh. It's strained because of the two of you. It won't go back to the happy memories of you never saying shit that made you uncomfortable or clearly stating boundaries to him (like being more stern in telling Leo he didn't like being filmed or have his face uploaded on Leo's insta, or even just having a time off as a couple) and Leo completely disregarding your wishes, being an egotistical idiot and a narcissist.
I can see already that with the heat of the moment, J.J. and Leo will sleep together, Leo will think everything is okay or at least that J.J. won't go away... Aaaaahhhhhhh fucking hell. Don't think with your dicks, think with your brains!!!
Both aren't good match for eachother as much as this fact will hurt them.
Ofc this had to come slowly. Having something rushed would've left me with a bitter taste and dropped the series altogether. This is refreshing, finally see Trashta being JUDGED by all her crimes and wrongdoings. And her screaming "lies!!!" Sorry girl, you did this. The fuck you expected to happen? Navier was literally thrown out of her empress chair and almost exiled when she divorced. You're at least alive... Well... Death is sometimes the easiest escape from a punishment. Confinement drives a person mad.
Should've shut the fuck up and stay put. You made your own enemies despite people looking up to you. Shame on you, shame.
J.J. what the fuck? I understand it's not easy to move on from a breakup, much less from someone you've grown to care and love for five whole years. It's five years of feelings you're not supposed to process within a few months (and yes, that's why a lot of people go back with their exes even though either them or their ex were a pos).
You wanted Leo to realise he messed up and have a him give a genuine apology. But the fuck is you with "instincts"? Was your dick the one making the decisions here? Was it your dick keeping you from communicating shit to Leo even though we know he might've ignored you cuz let's be real he's an idiot? Was your dick the one who thought it was a good idea to force yourself onto Leo when he was making the offer of being fuck-buddies???
Now you're just playing with him man. Disgusting. Don't give him and yourself false hopes that your relationship can go to what it was before. Nuh uh. It's strained because of the two of you. It won't go back to the happy memories of you never saying shit that made you uncomfortable or clearly stating boundaries to him (like being more stern in telling Leo he didn't like being filmed or have his face uploaded on Leo's insta, or even just having a time off as a couple) and Leo completely disregarding your wishes, being an egotistical idiot and a narcissist.
I can see already that with the heat of the moment, J.J. and Leo will sleep together, Leo will think everything is okay or at least that J.J. won't go away... Aaaaahhhhhhh fucking hell. Don't think with your dicks, think with your brains!!!
Both aren't good match for eachother as much as this fact will hurt them.