It’s really not that fucking hard, say no to the old bastard and tell J. He won’t care that you “almost” had his “brothers”child because 1 you didn’t and her know why, and 2 HE DOESN'T HAVE A BROTHER, THAT MAN IS AS GOOD AS A FUCKING STRANGER!!! LIKE HAVE YOU MET YOUR HUSBAND???
LITERALLY JUST COMMUNICATE AND BE HAPPY