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It's only the first chapter so it's too early to predict anything yet.

But it really amazes me how many people get engaged/married without sitting down and discussing their future as a couple. A few of many many questions you need to talk seriously with your partner:
1. Will you have children? If yes, how many are you expecting? How do you feel about birth, C section, adoption, etc. Your parenthood plan basically.
2. Where do you want to live? City? Suburban? Country side? What kind of home? Apartment? Tiny house? 2-3 bedroom?
3. What lifestyle are you going to have after marriage and how are you affording it?
4. Financial and housework responsibility, how are you sharing money, accounts, housework, etc?

Marriage isn't just "we enjoy eachother company", marriage is a lot more.