
ML dies literally around the time FL and ML start dating each other. Fl starts to see his ghost. However, ML spirit is also not him at the same time, but also another spirit that has latched on to him. So sometimes he acts out of character, like a child who wants FL's attention. FL has a dysfunctional family where her mom abuses her. ML's family was also really weird. They both have mommy issues. ML friend starts to develop a crush on FL. One of FL friend is psychic too. Later FL's hair even tuirns white. Eventually, FL and her friends and ML friend learn about the situation and are trying to exorcise or get rid of the spirit. This manga probably came out after 2023, so it's fairly "new" and should be finished about now.

The series was probably released between 2000-2015 just because the quality is a little lower. It's about an upcoming child actress. I saw this on TikTok, but that was a while ago so I can't recall the name nor look it up in my history. In the scene that I saw, the young girl needs to act as a doll. However, when she is acting as a doll, at first she tries to cushion her fall when she's pushed and gets scolded by her teacher. At the end of her training, she becomes like a real doll, falling like an inanimate object and not afraid of getting hurt. On the other hand, the young girl has competition. It's a slightly older girl, but who has more experience with acting or in the show biz.

romance fantasy!! girl is reborn as a princess mage, with a mark- destined to die when she is 20. the mark is like an hourglass. her magic tutor is the villainess, or so the princess believes. there is a scene where she and her tutor talk in the garden and the princess says shes not afraid of dying and the villainess cries.

* villainess isekai trope
* FL regresses or transmigrates
* OGFL is a little sussy
~~ I only rmbr one scene so...~~
FL goes to give food to the poor with a ML(?) and a child comes up to take some food back. the ML was against that however FL argues that the children must be so hungry and starved that even if they eat their fill now, what abt later? which made him go WOW. because unlike the OGFL who he had taken with him before to give food to the poor said to a child, "eat as much as you want here" which may seem cruel in hindsight.

That scene sounds like a scene from "Anyone Can Become a Villainess" / "Behold the True Villainess". It happened pretty early on in the story.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/anyone_can_become_a_villainess/

I think that happens in a lot of manhwa
But didn’t somethng like that happen here too? When she was giving out food with Winter (magic dude) Maybe you mean this.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/death_is_the_only_ending_for_the_villainess/

* villainess isekai trope
* FL regresses or transmigrates
* OGFL is a little sussy
~~ I only rmbr one scene so...~~
FL goes to give food to the poor with a ML(?) and a child comes up to take some food back. the ML was against that however FL argues that the children must be so hungry and starved that even if they eat their fill now, what abt later? which made him go WOW. because unlike the OGFL who he had taken with him before to give food to the poor said to a child, "eat as much as you want here" which may seem cruel in hindsight.

looking for a chinese webtoon manhua title. transmigration/reincarnation. FL restarts her life from the past or her soul enters a new body. she is made to marry a prince who is said to be dumb, but as the story progresses ML slowly shows that he's more capable intelectually than he leads on as well as talented in the martial arts (but only to the reader). her goal is to ruin the crown princes life, i think. FL is a doctor too, i think. FL and ML are really in love and are lovey dovey. ML is a simp and FL is more aloof and mature. one arc: they went to a village and cured people of their sickness, but they were supposed to fail and get in trouble. FL has dark black hair? and blue eyes. ML has brown hair and brown/golden eyes.
I need some GOOD groveling and regret from the ML. I need angst. I want to be frustrated beyond hell and crying a river.