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Amarehana May 11, 2021 9:04 am

Okay so I’m dating this guy right, well we did kinda get into this relationship kinda fast but I’ve noticed that he is really possessive and clingy.

Like I love BTS a lot, I’m an army but when I told my bf he got mad at me, he asked me this question “ would you really die if you were in a room with them”? And I said yes cuz I’m a really big fan but they have helped me a lot personally so if I did get a chance I’d love to sit down and have a chat BUT he escalated it to the point where he was like of so u love em so much I’ll have sex w em too huh, like what?

He also won’t let me have any guy friends, he’s like don’t talk to your co workers if a guy says hi, ignore them, he knew I had two guy best friends and like they both had gf but even then he got mad at me then he said I’m sorry I’ve just had bad experiences and stuff.

It’s been 4 and half month since we started dating and he’s also like talking about marriage and living together and stuff( we are 19)

He’s also talked about like misogynistic stuff and how women are just inferior to men, in terms of strength and like work related? Like world wide too, but then he said it was a joke

He gets mad at small things and I always have to work it out, I’m a very patient person which I honestly did not know. But my friend said he’s emotionally manipulative.

Like he always says I miss you I love right after fights and stuff... sometimes I feel like I’m kinda trapped..... idk what to do pls help.

I do know he likes me a lot so I just can’t make myself to break up... I like him too but idk my feelings keep wavering and I feel like this isn’t the one

    Anonymous May 11, 2021 9:01 am

    sis,leave him.

    Nanao May 11, 2021 9:02 am

    Dip on his ass

    RJin May 11, 2021 9:03 am

    oml so many red flags.. sounds like ur dating a man child pls dump him

    44cid May 11, 2021 9:08 am

    hes trying to monopolize you by not letting you have guy friends and isnt it really early for marriage talk bc you guys have been dating for 4-5 months and got into relationship fast so you dont know eachother that well ofc i dont really know the relationship between you but i think its really early

    ItsmeFendy May 11, 2021 9:09 am

    Break up with him, that man is toxic and won’t stop being toxic even if you confront him about it.

    44cid May 11, 2021 9:10 am
    hes trying to monopolize you by not letting you have guy friends and isnt it really early for marriage talk bc you guys have been dating for 4-5 months and got into relationship fast so you dont know eachother ... 44cid

    +++
    he seems very toxic and emotionally manipulative sooo many red flags

    yaoi_lover1997 May 11, 2021 9:10 am

    i don’t know much abt that kind of relationship or the kind of situation ur in. but i do know that u should not be feeling trapped and that he should not be treating u like that, and girl all i need to say is leave him. i know that u like him but if he’s acting like that, that isn’t a good sign to me. i feel like as time goes on things will escalate and he’ll start to be more manipulative and you’ll feel even more trapped to the point where you’ll feel like u cant escape.

    Amarehana May 11, 2021 9:13 am
    +++he seems very toxic and emotionally manipulative sooo many red flags 44cid

    Everyone is saying That but the thing is I don’t know how to, like he gets sad at the slightest bit of me bringing up us breaking up. And then he goes back to being love dovey.

    How should I do it? In a way that it won’t hurt him too much

    Jex May 11, 2021 9:27 am

    Girl, listen, ive witnessed too many cases like this and one thing u have to know that GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP SOON OR U WILL REGRET LATER, no one knows for sure if he gets more emotionally attached to u, what would he do after u break up with him, pls be hurry and break up. Just dont worry about him too much, WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF FIRST. Im really worried about u now, girl. Escape, ASAP
    (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    Jex May 11, 2021 9:30 am

    He will def get hurt. But all u can do is break up in a tender way and say that he will find a better person because u and he are not compatible, not because he is a bad person. After that pls dont go anywhere alone. Ive witnessed alot tragic similar to this. I dont want anything bad happens to u. Take care

    Lady tikki May 11, 2021 9:31 am
    Everyone is saying That but the thing is I don’t know how to, like he gets sad at the slightest bit of me bringing up us breaking up. And then he goes back to being love dovey.How should I do it? In a way tha... Amarehana

    Darling !!! Just try .......he is toxic and obsessed with you if you continue tolerating him and letting everything he does slide........it will escalate to a point of no return ......... escape.....run, don't look back.......if you go one staying with him he might even lock you up in his house just to keep you with him...... That's an unhealthy relationship you are have and if I were you ,after see all this red flags I wouldn't stick around ...........it's okay to still like him but in the end it's you whose going to choose what you want to do....... Good luck gal you

    Nanao May 11, 2021 9:31 am
    Everyone is saying That but the thing is I don’t know how to, like he gets sad at the slightest bit of me bringing up us breaking up. And then he goes back to being love dovey.How should I do it? In a way tha... Amarehana

    U can try to friend zone his ass......or try to have a convo with him and bring up reasons to y u want to break up w him.

    living peacefully T-T May 11, 2021 9:40 am

    Sis you better get out of the relationship with him . It's better to be single than being in a toxic relationship . He may try to make you feel as if you're wrong by looking hurt or trying to dump him , just don't listen to that mf . Go and dump him (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

    noyoudont May 11, 2021 9:40 am

    Omg that so bad, i feel like youll have a hard time breaking up with him if hes that manipulative. If you really cant break up with him ( if you have feelings or sumn ) then try and talk it out and make sure to SPEAK WHATS ON YOUR MIND!!! coz if he still refuses to listen to you and maybe ppl around you, u have to do it coz it might lead to abuse sooner or later. Goodluck tho u hope u get out of that!!!o((*^▽^*))o

    Justme May 11, 2021 9:50 am

    Leave him.. block his number.. and pretend you doesn't know him.. or just pretend you have memory loss and say your brain have function to delete something stressful.. it always work for me and surprisingly it become peaceful breakup for both of us.. but if you want to deal with your bf and doesn't want break up but let me tell you.. patient never be option to deal that kind of problem..

    Elite_mikoochi May 11, 2021 9:56 am

    I think you should end it before something will go wrong

    Amarehana May 11, 2021 10:16 am

    I see, thank you everyone

    Amarehana May 11, 2021 2:38 pm
    Girl, listen, ive witnessed too many cases like this and one thing u have to know that GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP SOON OR U WILL REGRET LATER, no one knows for sure if he gets more emotionally attached to u, ... Jex

    Are these type of ppl like say “ I love you so much, your so precious, your my love, idk wat I would do without you, I love you for you not just ur body,” etc, he told me a sad backstory too, n like idkkkkkkk, I just find it hard for him to be like such a dick one day, a kind per the other day, or like a yandere type of possessive n clingy type. He’s like all of them... I see the red flags but for some reason I’m like always thinking ab his situation after we break up, it’s like I can’t make myself do it, I feel guilty... idk how to even bring up the talk about breaking up. I’m so confused

    Amarehana May 11, 2021 2:51 pm
    Omg that so bad, i feel like youll have a hard time breaking up with him if hes that manipulative. If you really cant break up with him ( if you have feelings or sumn ) then try and talk it out and make sure to... noyoudont

    You see that’s the thing, he honestly is, but we’ve had this talk, in the we would talk a lot then I kinda just started to text less in words but he got mad about that and was like telling me so Uluru loosing feelings huh n wat not. It always happens when he argue, n when I had the talk w him ab how I feel like he doesn’t listen to me or how he always blames me for things I cannot control, he gets defensive but then he apologized n would be like “babyyyyyy I’m sorryyyyyy I love youu, baby don’t be mad okayyyy, awwww ur so cute when ur mad” n stuff like that. So I tried bringing up about breaking up, in a subtle way n he started to act sad and make like sad sounds, kinda like how anime ppl do, that in general like a fake sad type of voice. This always ends w me apologizing n explaining myself to him, n like it’s not my fault tho, if only I could post as here but, today he was talking an brain dead ppl, n he was like would u stay w me if I went into coma, as in brain dead, n was like I’d stay but I can’t stay forever u know, but then he was like, what an when I wake up? N I was like u won’t cuz ur dead technically, n he got mad at me cuz he was like ok wrong brain dead ppl r not dead n shit, n got an attitude but after I kinda got mad he was like ohhhhhh baby sorry I thought u were talking ab coma patients........ he was like, I tend to filter out words I do t want to hear...... so he doesn’t wanna accept that ppl are right and he can be wrong..... I hate it. You see I told him wats on my mind but he always brings it back like, I’m sad, or like I’ll cry, you wanna leave me? Nooooooo, baby I love you n shit like it’s so hard.. it’s so hard I don’t know wat to do.

    At this point I’m like lost.. even if I wanted to break up, he won’t let me.

    Amarehana May 11, 2021 2:52 pm
    You see that’s the thing, he honestly is, but we’ve had this talk, in the we would talk a lot then I kinda just started to text less in words but he got mad about that and was like telling me so Uluru loosi... Amarehana

    Omg I type so much sorry TT^TT

    Amarehana May 11, 2021 2:56 pm
    He will def get hurt. But all u can do is break up in a tender way and say that he will find a better person because u and he are not compatible, not because he is a bad person. After that pls dont go anywhere ... Jex

    Your right, it’s gunna be hard, but Thank you And he loves like kinda far from me 2h by bus so I think I should b fine? Like I’m in Toronto n he’s in Mississauga

    Jex May 11, 2021 4:10 pm

    Girl, BREAK UP immediately, we are here to bring you the courage, dont get cold feet, U HAVE TO DO THIS FOR YOURSELF, dont give a damn about anyone else, pls, this is really serious, its like u have to save yourself hun, dont maintain this situation any more. It gets worse minute by minute, keep in mind that u didnt do anything wrong.

    noyoudont May 12, 2021 5:09 am
    You see that’s the thing, he honestly is, but we’ve had this talk, in the we would talk a lot then I kinda just started to text less in words but he got mad about that and was like telling me so Uluru loosi... Amarehana

    What the actual fuck is he im sorry but is he 10 or sumn lol How about try being the whiny bitch one yea? Like instead of you ended up apologizing, be immature! Do things u think he will get tired of, like hints of talking to boys or sumn MAKE HIM JEALOUS THEN IF HE GETS MAD BE MAD SAYING UR ATTITUDE US FUCKING GARBAGE SHIT IM DUMPING YOUR UGLY ASS or something like that??? And never explain anything like oh hes just someone THEN LEAVE HIM ON FUCKING READ yk get yo revenge arc queen U DONT DESERVE THAT TYPA MAN AND i know im just saying things bcs ive never been in a relationship but i really hope i helped u even one bit coz i really feel bad DATE A WOMAN INSTEAD

    Amarehana May 12, 2021 7:17 am
    What the actual fuck is he im sorry but is he 10 or sumn lol How about try being the whiny bitch one yea? Like instead of you ended up apologizing, be immature! Do things u think he will get tired of, like hint... noyoudont

    Women are , but yes! I’ll do this THANKYOU I DECIDED TO BREAK UP TMRW

    Amarehana May 12, 2021 7:18 am
    Girl, BREAK UP immediately, we are here to bring you the courage, dont get cold feet, U HAVE TO DO THIS FOR YOURSELF, dont give a damn about anyone else, pls, this is really serious, its like u have to save you... Jex

    I knowwwww, THANK YOUU ILL TRY TO DO IT TMRW! N I will thank you

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