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There is missing context to why she said that in the past life. I don’t want to spoil you without your consent so I will just say that Carcel did something, without her permission, that upset her immensely. Before Carcel did it, her father was going to do it but Carcel told her father he will take the sin/blame upon himself.

Please spoil me hahahah

I posted the explanation when a previous chapter was released. The spoiler is at the below link:

https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/20388751/

Please spoil

Sure. I posted the explanation previously at the below comment:

https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/20388751/

Thanks I do understand with all details now. I m grateful to you

No problem. It’s just unfortunate that a lot of the 1st TL memories that comes up in the main story might not have a lot of context because the epilogue provides a lot more details and it is highly likely it won’t be adapted to manhwa.

I think I m gonna buy for sure the novel with all the insight you gave us

Thanks for the info, now I understand

(((new kind activated))) SXBXJHSH

Unfortunately, Carcel is always criticized for everything he does. Even in Bilbao, his point of view was dismissed by some. Just imagine what a person would feel like when they found out they were chosen by their spouse to be used and dump. For Carcel, everything made sense after he realized this truth because he always suspected something was off about the way Ines behaved with him the last 17 years.

Some also don’t appreciate that Carcel didn’t blame Ines for choosing him to use and dump. Think about it. How many people would not hold a grudge if they found out someone they hold dear chose them to use and discard? Most of us would not handle it the way Carcel did. Instead, he sympathized with her desperation that chose him to use and dump. He mourned for her, got angry for her and wanted to kill the bastard that made her life a living hell. He wanted to help her be with the one he thought she might love not knowing that Ines truly loves him. Yet, some didn’t understand his heart that wanted to make her happy. Instead, they put him down and say he’s stupid. So basically, he’s criticized no matter what he does.

Thankfully though, there are some who understand Carcel’s actions and feelings. Ultimately he wants the best for Ines even at the expense of himself. That is true love.

So they just don’t understand that true love forgives everything. They never experienced it so let’s them see with Carcelito how his love is so incommensurable and true for his dear wife

Yep. I also think they want Carcel to be a one-dimensional character. They want him to act like a cheerful simp all the time rather than an actual human being who experiences complicated feelings over all the things he just learned. They think he should automatically switch off his emotions and cater to Ines when the actual character is trying to sort out his feelings and how best to handle the situation. For them, he shouldn’t be allowed to mourn, grieve or feel sadness over his beloved wife. Unfortunately for them, Kim ChaCha wrote Carcel closer to a real human being.

In contrast, I don’t see anyone belittling Ines’s emotions over anything.

I’ve also noticed that because carcel has a habit of blaming himself often when it comes to Ines’ pain and trauma, the audience that is biased towards Ines use it as validation to agree that it’s his fault as well. Whereas with Ines, using her trauma as a justification, they interpret any moment she blames herself or points out her flaws as her “self-degrading” herself and take her as an unreliable narrator in that moment which is a very weird double standard.

I think the only way biased manhwa readers will change their mind is if there’s a moment where both the narrative and ines herself very directly explain how in the wrong they were to the point that no one can twist her or the narrative’s words.

Your comment is spot on.

This current arc will deal with Ines’s character development and there’s an important reason why she’s now getting back some of her ‘worst’ first timeline memories. Nevertheless, some manhwa readers will still attribute her behavior to self-degradation even when Ines herself admits her fault and is afraid of the ‘evil’ voice of her younger self. It’s unfortunate because Ines’s character development is one of the better ones I have seen in any Korean novel. At the end, I sometimes find it hard to believe how far she’s come and it’s all due to Carcel and later his family.

I’ve also been really like her character growth. It’s unfortunate there will be people who won’t get it but I’ve noticed after season 2 finished people have grown to see the nuance and there are not as many people pushing such bias narratives compared to before. So there’s at least that positive.

Agreed with you there in the early chapter yes he cheats but for my understanding why the ml did that (this only what understand okie from reading the early chapter's don't attack me) it the way to get back to fl it's like 'ah so your using me as a tool okie well I don't care either " but at sametime the ml still care for the FL reaction I would say ml was orange at that time hahahaha

But after they got married they started talking to each other and understanding each other and ml really care for the FL if I were in ml situation were I would hear what happened to my girl I feel like I would lose my mind and I would be paranoid whenever my girl got hurt yes the kinda lack communication but they working on it you can't expect the ml just said oh I saw ur past like ex and he told me this and that when we all know that FL have truma after that life losing the painter guy and there child and we saw how FL act when she thought she see the painter guy like girl would that not trigger something I'm glad the were seeing both side of pov and it depends on reader to understand both side to see what error of action ml and FL and not just blamed the other one sooo yeah I hope u understand what I'm saying
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