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Dan has a lot of similar characteristics to his dad, like being an alcoholic, being heavily reliant on people (jj or his grandma), being unable to pick himself back up.

Obviously Dan isn’t as bad as his dad but seeing someone living like his dad probably triggered jj to act more insensitively. Like he doesn’t want to get attached to another person that has the same self destructive habits as his dad.

Another thing, jjk probably saw a lot of his old “pitiful” self in Dan. Again triggering him. Jj is seeing his old self through Dan, but jj somehow feels superior because now he can look at it from a higher position.

It’s like when you see someone acting like how you used to before you matured and it icks you out, that’s basically what jj is seeing.

A relationship over a decade is not smth to risk i promise

Tbf, he is also his boss lol. I can't imagine his position tbh. It seems hard to just confess to your long time friend and boss, moreover someone who set his mind on one person for years. They are two peas in a pod, as they say.

What a load of shit

That's true,a friend of my brother got into a fight to defend his friend(or cousin i forgot)and he was the one who got suedwhen the guy was the first to attack his friend...(im brazilian too)

no, no, I believe it. It's just shitty.

I suppose you're not in a country where you can adopt as a gay couple?
But then, couldn't you adopt a child yourself, like, legally it would be your child and not both yours and your partner's but in practice who cares about what homophobic laws say, you'd just be a family?

or have artificial insemination. at least the child would be yours, or your partner's

Yep, to be honest "your child" will be the child you decide to raise, doesn't matter where it came from, to them you'll be their parents after all

(what i mean is let's not go with society's weird social norms about "purity of pregnancy" (aka "it's not really your child if the both of you didn't created it by combining both of your DNA") that's just bullshit and even harms heterosexual couples that can't make children, so if you fell for sure belief, try to see things in a different way, you'll share 99,9% of your DNA anyway, i think that's enough to call them yours ~^~

Gay couples can still have biological kids if they want to...

what /i/ mean is a baby born of artificial insemination would /biologically/ be your child. you're missing part of the problem that involves his dad not wanting their /bloodline/ to go extinct. artificial insemination can privide a blood relative with no strings attached for the doner and the surrogate mother. i understand if /you/ personally dont wanna go through child birth, i don't either. im merely saying theres options other than adoption

Ah yes of course!
I don't really understand such concept since in my eyes, humanity already shares more than 99.9% of its DNA, so it's just a social concept that holds no real value in my eyes!
But!! Historically speaking it has been a concern for some families like the medicis, so my bad, i should have thought about it you're right