Potato San created a topic of Backlight

This means that even when the person who wounded you dies, their presence will always remain in your life. Even death can’t erase the pain and trauma they caused

Potato San created a topic of Jinx

Everyone here is offering psychological explanations. As a clinical psychologist myself, I understand that yes trauma and a childhood devoid of love or filled with violence can shape someone into a person who lacks empathy. But that doesn’t justify harmful behavior.
Because the truth is: you’ll find people from similar backgrounds who choose completely different paths. Your circumstances may explain your pain, but they don’t excuse cruelty.
I’m not here to judge what’s right or wrong on a personal level. But I will say this clearly: hurting others is never the right choice and it can never be justified. Not in reality, not in fiction.
It shouldn’t be romanticized or written off to make characters more "complex" or popular. Violence is not love. It’s not a tool for emotional depth. And as someone who works closely with the human psyche, I know exactly how deeply stories shape minds how they influence what we accept, expect, and even desire.
Writers and readers alike need to be more mindful. Because narratives matter.

Potato San created a topic of Jinx

His situation is similar to Yeongwoon in Backlight only he chose to become a sadist, while Yeongwoon remained a sweetheart. What I mean is, there's always at least a small space to make decisions. Life might shape you into something dark, but you still have the choice to be less hateful.
Jinx actually had the potential to be something deeper, but unfortunately, it ended up being a typical cliché. I used to feel angry about that, but now I’ve come to accept that I can only enjoy the art for what it is without overthinking it.
Anyway, it’s just a story to read. But in real life, if you ever find yourself stuck with someone like that, leave and don’t look back. He will only torture you and leave you with nothing but pain and regret.

Potato San created a topic of Off Track

As an old soul in the yaoi/BL world, I have to say this one has some of the best sex scenes I've come across. The author clearly took the time to study the physics and intimacy involved in bed, the heat and chemistry really come through. That’s a difficult thing to pull off, and I appreciate it through an artistic lens

Potato San created a topic of Falling sheep

Only three words: What the FuCk(゜ロ゜)

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Ha Joyoon, a reporter for TPA Communications — a foreign news agency — has been in a com...

  • Author: AMALILLIA
  • Genres: Yaoi / Drama / Romance / Slice Of Life / Webtoons
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From Chocoreito TeamWhich one do you prefer to cherish, the one you broke up with nine years ago or ...

  • Author: Wang Tao
  • Genres: Shounen Ai / Drama
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Trapped in the gaming world of Elix, Sehyun’s once mode of solace is now his prison. Here, one...

  • Author: Sambaek
  • Genres: Webtoons / Yaoi / Adult / Mature / Smut / Adventure
Potato San created a topic of A Trace Of Margins

I think the author did a good job creating a plot that explores the dark side of love how it can turn into obsession and madness. One can truly feel how ruthless a person can become when pure love transforms into something muddy and terrifying, a feeling that one can’t quite name

Potato San created a topic of The Hounds of Sisyphus

But Guwon's reaction in Chapter 12 looked real. He went blank and didn't seem mischievous. I think his throwing up is related to his physical condition, but at the same time, he's definitely not sincere.

Potato San created a topic of The Hounds of Sisyphus

That blank look of Guwon...he seemed as if a new world had just opened up to him. ( ≧∀≦)ノ

Potato San answered question about question
I can only imagine how painful and devastating this must feel. But I’m glad you’ve come to this realization.. some people stay in denial until there’s nothing left to cry over. It takes real courage to see the truth in a relationship, and you’ve shown that courage. Don’t be too hard on yourself. We’re all here to learn, and you did what......
Potato San answered question about question
Honestly, I was just gonna scroll past because I already feel happy, but then I thought, why not share it? I went through a really tough time when I was studying abroad in terrible dorm conditions, and for almost six months, I was studying up to 8 hours a day. It got so bad that I started losing hair, and my eyesight got worse. On top of that, I ha......
Potato San created a topic of Jinx

I couldn't care less about hating JK. But Dan… he's trapped in that fucker's grip, and sadly, the only one who can save him now is JK.

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Jinwoo, a renowned potter who fell into a slump after first love and parting.In it, he encounters Co...

  • Author: Shiyan,시옌,Siyen
  • Genres: Webtoons / Yaoi / Adult / Mature / Smut / Romance
Potato San created a topic of The Hounds of Sisyphus

We've read so much toxic, shit content that when we meet a sweetheart, we doubt his intentions. I want to believe that he's just clueless and accustomed to the harshness of the world, simply acting on his nature..being sweet to the people he knows.

Potato San created a topic of The Hounds of Sisyphus

At this point, I doubt he knows anything about sex.

Potato San shared experience about fall for a same sex person
I fell for a girl. Though she never knew about it. She was beautiful in my eyes. Her skin was dark, and I loved gazing into her eyes. She didn’t smile often, in fact, she was usually serious. but I loved her both when she smiled and when she was stern. She worked at the gym. I wasn’t a sporty person, but I signed up for the gym just to see her.......
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Give me a BL character, and I will analyze the character.

Potato San created a topic of Jinx

I see some people hate Dan for not standing up for himself. But did you notice that Dan has never lived for himself? He was that obedient grandson who carried a heavy debt at a young age. He had no time to shape his personality and no one to teach him the right way to navigate the world. This is a very realistic character that can be seen in real life. I wish people could see how well written this character is because he has never done anything out of character, which shows the plot is on the right track. Dan could be any of us. Did you notice he doesn't know much about his thoughts and emotions? That's because he's so simple minded he just does what he's told to do