Honestly there's so much SA in BL that I'm getting to the point that I might stop reading. I love BL they have such good story lines, but not every story has to have SA or some traumatic trauma. I do understand that this happens in real life and if you have gone through something like that I'm so sorry but they need to stop romanticizing and normalizing these types of relationships it's not love and someone who loves you would not emotionally, and sexually abuse you.