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thank god its time to go phainon u suffered enough

He needs to live and experience true happiness

hmmmm the usual is "why do you want this job," "why did you apply," "what can you do," "what're you good at,"

Depending on the type of job, don't just list down your education levels or how hardworking you are. Chances are that everybody else applying has the exact same or better education and story. U need something unique, what is something that only YOU can give to the company/employer that makes them want to choose you instead of the others. Doesn't have to always be completely beneficial just different. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

(good luck)

1. Your background. Talk a lil bit about your past experiences, focus on stuff that will make you a good fit for the current role.
2. Strengths and weaknesses. Talk about a previous job experience that highlights these topics. For strength focus on how you used it to improve your previous work. For weaknesses, after mentioning it, mention how you overcame or managed it.
3. Why you left. Don't shit talk the previous job, praise it and how it helped you develop skills ABC, then continue on how you want to look for more opportunity to utilize said skills and tie it in with the current role.

From my experience, if the interview feels like a conversation rather than an interrogation, then there's a better chance of getting the job. And even if you don't pass, dw, continue to interview and grow your interview skills. People underestimate interview skills tbh. The more you interview, the more you're comfortable with what to do.

if you're interviewing for some corpo, then check out AdviceWithErin on yt, she has some good tips on how to sound professional and how to answer curveball questions

goodluck gng

Hello everyone, I didn’t really expect many people to reply. I appreciate the advices I got and applied what I can before the interview. It went well and I secured a final interview! Wish me luck

first step is getting off this site

wdym?

Damn you’re right

Stop thinking being a loser is a bad thing and just embrace it

Idk just like improving one’s life. I guess I feel a bit fomo since others seem to be so happy. I just feel stagnant that’s all.

Hmm fair point. That does bring comfort.

try to have some goals in life, even if u think they’re stupid or not enough. staying stagnant isn’t always a bad thing. do whatever you want to do in ur life

arent we all losers

I feel stupid for saying this but genuinely the only thing that worked for me was starting gym and exercising moreand also doing volunteer work that helped me improve my socialising skills !! (i'm not saying you should do this obvsly I'm just saying maybe try to engage in things you would usually avoid) But well idk I still like being a loser despite making small changes to my life lol

ts so real

What helped me was reading or watching self-help / psychology related books or videos

and making sure I take care of my priorities first before relaxing

Remember that there isn't a "right" way to grieve. You could consider memorializing your cat in a way that feels meaningful to you, like creating a photo album etc. in her memory. Remember, it's okay to ask for help and to seek comfort during this difficult time. （/TДT)/

my condolences to both ur cats

everyone grieves differently there is no right way to do it. it may be hella weird but it is still grief

it is a pity ur family is not more supportive. ur cat wasn’t “just a cat.” i am sure they were more than that, family even. i can see that you really loved them.

i am sending virtual hugs and support. grieve as long as you need.

idk if this suggestion will do any good but what about getting another cat?

It s always really hard. I ve been in the same situation. Even lost my dad... .. It s very hard. ...
So u just need to prepare yourself for something like that

I am so sorry for your loss and I am sure they were happy that they were able to have a good life with you sweetie. And about your question, I've also lost two cats before and I honetly can relate so much they were not just cats they literally were my babies, they helped me get through life even. Coming back to home to them and lying together with them was my best part of any day, I think it might be because you can feel unconditional love for the first time without any expectations from you, they only want food some care etc. and they will be together purring with you all the time it is the sweetest purest thing in the world. I would do anything for them. So my first advice is do not care about people who underestimate your love or grief, they just have not experienced or felt the same towards any pet I assume. Being able to love a little creature that wont give quantifiable things back to you is not something everyone is capable of or maybe they have not got any chance before (did not have any pets etc people's circumstances can differ) so do not blame them but just do not take their harsh words too into heart please. Please live your grief to your heart's content.
Second advice will be harder to accept but please adopt another cat if you have the chance. I know it feels like betraying your past sweethearts but it isn't. You have helped them and now new cats have the opportunity to be helped and loved by you, I am sure your cats who passed away would want the same too, for you to be happy and some other cats to feel the high amount of love they once received. It really will help you I promise, because coming back to an empty house where no cat greets you, lying in your bed when you do not have a cutie cat purring next to you will only make you remember the emptiness they left and miss them. You can help another cat by taking it in while also that cat will be there when you are missing them and feeling lonely. I am not saying to forget them, I am saying you can accept that you loved them and will always love them but you can give the remaining love you have for them to other living cute cats who would appreciate you with their whole being too. And I am sure if your cats were able to see you now they would want the same too, you and other cats being happy :)

I am so sorry about this, my condolences for both of your cats, no owner should experience the loss of their companions through such means. However I know you are griefing, but please take care of yourself, goes on little runs and do things you enjoy, I’m sure your cats would be sad seeing you down like this. Part of grief is acceptance that they are gone and knowing that it is time to move on. Don’t burden yourself with their deaths, and I beg you, don’t blame it on yourself. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here

Thank you so much to everyone here who took the time to read and reply on my vent. I feel a bit better after talking about it here.

I will try my best to move on slowly and process this grief inside me. Also, I still have two other cats with me. Their mom and little sister (they survive, thank goodness). So they do make me a little less lonely knowing they're all well.

Again, thank you for all of your advise and I'll keep them in mind. (I actually cried a bit reading the replies.)

Sincerely, thank you.

Uhh maybe??

I don't think that makes you a furry. Furries are typically into anthropomorphic animals, like characters with human-like qualities. While monsterfucking can involve creatures with animal features, it's not necessarily the same thing

Depends on the monster. If it’s a werewolf monster… you’re treading furry territory, but if it’s a demon-type of eldritch horror monster, your good, even if they have cat like ears or something

A furry is someone who is really into anthropomorphic animal characters, they are animals that stand up like a human, wear clothes like a human and even talk like a human if your talking about people who have just have demon horns or cat ears on their head but still look human then no that’s not what an anthropomorphic animal character is. A character with just animal ears and a tail but looks human is called something else but I forgot what it’s called, this is coming from someone who is a furry by the way

A character with just ears and a tail are called kemonomimi

Oh, yeah. That's what it was called, I forgot.

Super random but you’re like the other only person that I’ve seen to use “neways” other than a friend of mine. It’s not bad or anything, it’s just different to me Anyways, it is what it is now. I hope you’ll do better on your next exam

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Maybe 19 days

Nope qwq this one's a manga I think it has 5-6 chapters already?

They are different artists

Damn, I was so delulu HAHAHA neways thanks for your reply I appreciate it <3