
I wish we could be more like the asian fujoshis to be honest. They don't need a thousand disclaimers to say "don't worry guys it's not real" (not trying to diss you wonderful translator, thank you for your hard work).
But I miss the yaoi/BL fandom from 10-15 years ago (I'm an old bean) who wasn't so hung up about fictional stuff. I remember reading so many BL with half-brothers, found family, even actual family members and my brain never thought "oh I'll try real life incest then" and I was a teenager reading this.
I'm glad the chinese readers can have fun with the author teasing them by giving them fanservice, I'm a big fan of both sides of their relationship and I never confuse the two. If it makes you uncomfortable, of course you should avoid it, your safety first always but I hope you don't feel "bad" for liking the fanservice.
It's lines on a screen, it's not real. You don't condone real life incest just because you enjoy seeing pretty Big Potato wanting his Papa Wolf (don't we all).
Sorry for this big rant, I'm just not ready to make peace with the way the yaoi/BL fandom has changed I guess.
Take care of y'all.