
I don’t blame mr lim for being anxious and scared about age difference and feeling unsure if their relationship should even exist. This clearly causes him insecurity and doesn’t make him feel at ease in this relationship, but honestly if he communicated that who knows, maybe he’ll feel better, maybe not but eventually he’ll learn it’s okay.
Another note is, it’s honestly a good sign that Mr lim feels anxious about this 16 year gap (they are in 2 very diff life stages after all) because if he didn’t then wouldn’t that make him look like someone who isn’t considering the obstacles in a relationship aka taking it seriously. So it’s good mr lim is a serious man and clearly cares about yeoreum. He’ll come around eventually.