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I really do feel for the grey haired dude, really. His circumstances were really sad and it's easy to understand why it affects him the way it does HOWEVER, I feel like people don't understand how frustrating it is to deal with someone like that especially in a relationship. Going out of your way to make them feel validated, walking on egg shells, and being treated like a opprtunist who's just waiting to cheat is not fun. When it comes to people like the uke, once they have an idea in their head it's hard to change their mind. He already convinced himself that something more is going on, and while that is understandable because what happened in the past, it doesnt change the fact it's shitty for the other person. He needs to heal, grow and get help before he start's getting into relationships. His friend already warned Taewhan, even it's unintentional it doesn't change the fact that he has the protentional to be toxic. I'm sympathetic towards him but at the same time Taewhan shouldn't be the one to bare the weight of his insecurities.