The first answer by Uchan is the best and most objective. The important thing is knowing your own pleasure and sexual preferences, which is hard for a virgin, but toys are also really good lol.
If you haven’t done any exploration into your own sexual pleasure, then honestly don’t put so much weight on “losing your v card”. Most of the time...... reply
Guys we can’t ALL discourage them because with the declining birth rates and population plus much of our generation not wanting kids, someone’s gotta do it 1 reply