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Minn: "They accept misandry yet wonder why there's no equality"

Minn, the reason there’s no gender equality isn’t because some women express misandry online, it’s because we live in a system historically built on male dominance, where power has been concentrated in male hands and used to control and marginalize women. Equality was never truly present to begin with. Misogyny is structural. It manifests in gender-based violence, pay gaps, legal inequalities, and deeply ingrained societal norms. Misandry, by contrast, is largely reactionary, it’s not institutional, and it rarely goes beyond angry posts on social media. One results in oppression; the other in offense.
If a few bitter comments online are enough to make someone turn their back on the fight for equality, then maybe their commitment to fairness wasn’t genuine to begin with. Because equality isn’t about comfort, it’s about justice, accountability, and dismantling systems of harm. Women have been dehumanized and silenced for centuries. Calling that out, even if imperfectly, isn’t the root of the problem, it’s a response to it.

This is for people who don't take into account context and the complexity of power dynamics (or for those who lack basic empathy):

“Coercive rape” refers to non-consensual sex obtained through coercion, which can include threats, manipulation, abuse of power, or exploitation of someone’s vulnerable situation. It’s not limited to physical violence or the person screaming “no.” Modern legal and psychological understandings of consent recognise that consent must be freely given, enthusiastic, and without undue pressure or manipulation.

For those of you that know about this recent scandal with Saeron and that pedo Korean actor, have you noticed how many people, a lot of them WOMEN defend him despite the proof of him dating a 15year old child when he was pushing his 30s? Many of them even needed an explanation on why an adult dating a child is wrong and why is 'grooming' considered bad. I do also recognise that some of these defenders were minors but many of them were ADULTS which is so fucked up i felt beyond disturbed. I'm losing faith in humanity. How much of a piece of shit do you have to be to defend a child predator just because he's handsome? Not to mention the disgusting creeps that even used the hebephilia card as if this makes it any less appalling or changes the fact that he groomed a minor. She was BARELY 15 on the international age.

I seriously need to get this out of my chest:
I eat pasta with mayonnaise, the Hellmanns one specifically.

I use an ipad 10th gen to read manga but my sis prefers her laptop. What device are you guys using?