
I just find it annoying when people refer automatically to BL authors as "she" or "her," since they think if it's a BL author, it's automatically a she. But when he ends up being a man, they act so surprised, like, "Wow, a MAN wrote A BL?????????? HOWWW????????" Like, can you stop thinking like a caveman and start using "they" instead? It's not tha......