beta
I know they both were very obviously in love with each other but honestly everyone needs to hear the words. Action speaks louder than words but direct words leave little room for misinterpretations. There’s no way for it to get lost in translation if you speak clearly in the same love AND anxiety language as the other. Sunbae speaks in physical touch and intimacy meanwhile our baby speaks in reassurance and intimacy. Both have an overlap in love languages but only our baby needs verbal reassurance to calm his anxiety. Sunbae is far better at blocking out external distractions and interpreting actions clearly. He probably needs close distance and intimacy (kissing and hugs and cuddles) to calm his anxiety. It’s important to know both. I’m glad they are learning together!